Girlfriend wants me to wait till marriage for sex but she isn’t a virgin? (Page 2)

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First off a little about myself I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I’ve had multiple girlfriends throughout the years but none lasted over a few months. Half a year ago I met my new girlfriend and she’s an absolutely awesome person! We have lots in common and both really enjoy each other’s company. I figured us being together now for half a year would be a good time for me to ask her about sex. I already knew she wasn’t a virgin and that she had several different sexual partners throughout her life and even had a sexual relationship with her last boyfriend before me (who she broke up with only 4 months before we started dating). When I mentioned sex to her she said since after her last boyfriend, she’s decided for now on she’s going to wait until marriage for sex. Her reasoning behind this is she feels her man (me in this case) waiting for sex until marriage proves that I’m interested in other things then sex with her. I love my girlfriend very much and I would completely support her decision to wait for sex until marriage... if she were also a virgin. But she’s got to experience sex many different times with different people.. and I’ve never had sex once and now that I (the first virgin she’s ever been with) start dating her she decides I’m going to have to marry her first if I want to ever have sex.. it just makes me feel like she’s using the fact I’m still a virgin against me. That if I ever want to have sex then I better be willing to get married to do so. I don’t know if I’m looking at things the wrong way and just over reacting. I really would just like other people’s opinion because it has really been bothering me the last few days!

dwiller943 · Answer

Maybe she wants to have a chance to wait for once.

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

You don't deserve her. Maybe she should go.

asshole_ · Answer

get a new girl

Girlfriend wants me to wait till marriage for sex but she isn’t a virgin? (Page 2)

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