Why do I fall for guys so easily

[sweetface08]

90 percent of the time when I date someone I always end up falling for them dnt know if its love or just really feeling the person.and in the end most of the time am the one to get hurt.ppl say take it slow but that is easier said than done.i dnt know how to keep my gaurds up.i love dating but my relationsships never last long I dated my first real boyfriend for about 4 years nd after we were done I've been dating a lot of people and I always end up having sex with them.now am a very attractive female and guys always hit on me(not to be over confident) am always well dressed and you could say am a lilltle flirty but they always come to me.someone told me that am the type of girl that you make your wife,am not looking 4 a husband right now but they put me in that category.wat I want to know is why is it that every time I get into a relationship it always end up bad and I dated all types of guys so its not like am picking the wrong guy.

[LessonLearned]

Hmmm, how do I say this without coming across in the wrong way.

You ARE picking the wrong guys.or maybe the guys aren't the problem but you are, because you fall so easily.

I am not here to tell you NOT to fall fast/hard BUT at the same time a guy can tell when you are moving too fast, and that can be both a turn off and scary for them.

You can still like someone a lot and take it slow. You don't have to tell them all the time how much you like them. Give them their space and let them miss you.

When you meet all these guys and date them, you don't love them. You can't possibly love all the ones that you met at such a short span of time. Don't confuse lust/infatuation with love.

Also, you don't have to sleep with all the guys you date, UNLESS you are cool with that and expect nothing from it (and from the sounds of things, you want more than just the sex) I hope you don't think that sleeping with them will keep them around. If you are very attractive and wife material (whether you are looking for a husband or not) carry yourself as such.

Date, have fun.sleep with the ones that deserve you (or if you choose to sleep around, then keep it just as that)

Slow down and get into a relationship with someone AFTER you have dated them and they possess the qualities that you will like to have in a boyfriend. In the meantime enjoy getting to know each other. Don't give all yourself at one time. Keep an air of mystery. Don't be an open book too soon and don't take everything that someone says at face value. Make sure a man's actions AND his words match (for a good amount of time) Remember when you initially meet someone you are meeting their "representative" in time the true person comes out (flaws and all) then and only then can you see the true person and decide if they are in fact boyfriend material.

In the mean time, happy hunting. Keep it light. Go into the situation with no expectations but an open mind and it will all be fine.