I take the lead I’m the dominant one. I support the house hold financially my woman doesn’t have to have a job other the keep my house clean fix my food and please me in the bedroom she if she can’t handle that then she has a problem
Yeah but that never works out too well for them. Either, The guy doesn't put up with it and leaves. Or, THe guy lets them and the girl slowly loses attraction for them.
Either way the relationship ends. They need to learn it's all about compromise.
I think there shouldn't be any gender taking the lead. A relationship doesn't need a lead. A relationship is 2 best friends who care about eachother romantically
Overwhelming anecdotal evidence suggests that if I don't take the lead, no one fucking will.
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Wtf he is not your parent and you are not a kid. Take your decisions on your own, you can ask your partner about his/her opinions but in the end you decide it.
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I think i dont get the question. Why should anyone want to obey someone like a slave. How do you define a leader?
I don´t think it makes you a slave if you let your decide something for you. Imagine being in a relationship and you´re spending the weekend together, who should have the last word in what you´re doing together?
Both equally or depends on. Do you also ask your partner to go to pee? Dont get me wrong if you are into bdsm, each their own but for me deciding everything for someone is not right. Laws against rape in relationship/marriagw exist for a reason.
I´m never meant to decide for women or say that guy should decide. I just wanted to give an example how I understood the question. My example may have been bad.
i'm not a leader by nature, it was just never how i worked or how i operated, but at the same time, it annoys and enrages that this has always been expected of guys, men, and that we are expected to embrace it.
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Guys take the lead, very few women want to lead a relationship. They seem to like being pursued.
I take the lead I’m the dominant one. I support the house hold financially my woman doesn’t have to have a job other the keep my house clean fix my food and please me in the bedroom she if she can’t handle that then she has a problem
I want that because why should anybody have ti work cook and clean exhaustng man relationship need balance
Omg i hate taking the lead im always the dominant one
I don't like taking the lead nor being led, it has to be natural not forced. Cuz when it's forced that's a major turnoff for me
They all SAY they want men to take the lead. But how they act in practice says the exact opposite. Women want to be in charge and in control.
Yeah but that never works out too well for them. Either,
The guy doesn't put up with it and leaves. Or,
THe guy lets them and the girl slowly loses attraction for them.
Either way the relationship ends. They need to learn it's all about compromise.
@Silver158 I don't disagree with you.
I'd be okay in either, I think. Although honestly I'd prefer to be lead like 70% of the time.
I like to be the boss unless we’re in the bedroom then i’ll pass him the crown and throne
They prefer men to think they take the lead while they do their sneaky ass shit in the background.
Women like men to lead. If she doesn't let you lead she doesn't really actually want you but is settling.
On point
Those are the dudes with dad bods who say "happy wife happy life"
I think there shouldn't be any gender taking the lead. A relationship doesn't need a lead. A relationship is 2 best friends who care about eachother romantically
I think it depends on the female. It also depends on that particular female at that precise moment.
Generally I think women would want the guy to take the lead, if anyone. I prefer balance.
All I know is that, in a Christian marriage, the man is expected to take the lead; he is the head of the household.
Women want men to take the lead.
Until men aren't doing it right then they will begrudgingly take it.
If woman is a troublemaker, so man will let her enjoy leadership and he wins peace of mind !
Overwhelming anecdotal evidence suggests that if I don't take the lead, no one fucking will.
Wtf he is not your parent and you are not a kid. Take your decisions on your own, you can ask your partner about his/her opinions but in the end you decide it.
I think i dont get the question. Why should anyone want to obey someone like a slave. How do you define a leader?
I don´t think it makes you a slave if you let your decide something for you. Imagine being in a relationship and you´re spending the weekend together, who should have the last word in what you´re doing together?
Both equally or depends on. Do you also ask your partner to go to pee? Dont get me wrong if you are into bdsm, each their own but for me deciding everything for someone is not right. Laws against rape in relationship/marriagw exist for a reason.
But anyway if you find a woman who want to be your slave i dont give a f.
don´t get me wrong, I don´t want a woman to be a man´s slave. I just wanted to help you understand the question. I thought it would help you.
I´m not into bdsm and I don´t want somebody be my slave.
Can you elaborate on then. What you mean? Why dont you want women to decide for themself?
I´m never meant to decide for women or say that guy should decide. I just wanted to give an example how I understood the question. My example may have been bad.
I think women like to lead, but make the guy think he is leading lol,
They want guys to take the lead generally.
i'm not a leader by nature, it was just never how i worked or how i operated, but at the same time, it annoys and enrages that this has always been expected of guys, men, and that we are expected to embrace it.