Is it right to break up with my girlfriend because she lacks ambitions?

[Anonymous]

We've been dating for 15 months but for the longest, I've felt this relationship is stressing me out. She refuses to learn basic life skills, has been working as a secretary taking calls for 4-5 years (and doesn't seem interest in earning more or progressing), stays on the computer playing board games for hours, is always busy on her cell even when she's off, expects me to do everything (even when it's clearly I'm exhausted from work), her parents are always meddling and insist on taking her out more often, etc.

Lastly, she clearly told me once ''Don't get me pregnant or else I'm going to abort the thing''. I feel like the longer I stay, the more time I'm wasting for both me and her. I feel like I have too carry too much weight while she does very little or nothing. The last time I came home from work, she was laying on the couch with an empty cup noodle and huge bowl of empty popcorn seeds... doing nothing.

Yet, her parents expect me to marry her one day. She's doesn't even want children and has no motivations in life. I know that the longer I stay, she's going to probably ask for a proposal ring too. So it's like she wants everything given to her for free (even a meal too) without doing anything.

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Honestly, I see no benefit in marrying her. All I see is risks, losses and a super stressful life. I feel this relationship is a dead-end.

[Mr_longLegz]

Id step out of it. Some men are content with a woman just being around or doing a thing, and don't mind picking up the pieces. If that's not your thing and you want a family later on, id definitely move on. Someone who refuses to learn basic things to function alone is very hindering. Especially if you want a family, if you can't do the basics for yourself how can you be trusted to do them for a child effectively?

[Tyrael]

Yeah you said it yourself mate, gtfo of there. Run while you can and find someone worth investing your time and effort in who will appreciate it and reciprocate.

[pleasestopthis]

Leave her, if marriage is what you want then you'd better look for the right person.
Don't give in to your parents' pressure and follow your gut feeling on this

[Hazelstar99]

Yes break up with her. When you're not feeling on same page with her. Break up with her.

[NitroExpress]

Sounds like you've got it figured it. Do what you feel is right for you, there's no shame in prioritizing yourself.

[NitroExpress]

*figured out

[sof1xO]

Life is way too short to be stuck with someone you don't see yourself with in the long run.

[heatherlou]

Regardless of anything else - if you want children and she doesn't. Game over.