In an ideal world, she’d abort. I am in no shape or form ready, willing or capable of being a father at my age. My main focus is on moving abroad for university (massively profitable in long run) so I wouldn’t want to throw a kid in the mix. But that also holds for the future. With that degree, I’d probably end up in London or NYC. Either way, I do want a lot of flexibility in my first years instead of being bogged down by a family for years.
Uhhh it's not possible that I'm gonna get her pregnant but theoretically I'd consider our options with her and ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to have an abortion or to put it up for adoption, I'll support her completely. If she wants to keep it then I'll help raise them and start a family with her. Remember men, you are not in control of her body. You can't force her to keep it 👏
I would want us to sit down and have a converstion for the most important decision of our lives. All the other answers start whith "I would/I would want her to" are for sociopaths
Which abortion procedure are you referring to? The pill or when they take out the pregnancy tissue? Abortion procedures are painful but they get the job done.
I don't open random links. Send me an article with a source if you'd like. I've had people send me fucked up shit on here so I'd rather know what I'm clicking on.
@Kas19 Well, it's a Vimeo link, so that has to be good enough. You don't need an article, you need to see what an abortion looks like. If you want to stick your head in the sand, then it's your choice not to acknowledge it, but it's not because I didn't show you the facts.
@OlderAndWiser Oh sorry, got mixed up. Anyway, yes. And I'm not sure what you mean by "taking out the baby and it dies." Are you talking about Vacuum Aspiration? There are different types of abortion procedures so I'm not sure which one you're referring to.
@Kas19 The result of every abortion procedure, regardless of how it is done, it the same; a baby is surgically removed from the womb and it dies. It is a baby, not "pregnancy tissue."
@Kas19 Of course I know what you meant. You meant that you want to refer to your unborn baby as "pregnancy tissue" so you can dehumanize it and not think of it as murder when you have an abortion.
I'm not having an abortion. I don't think abortions should be dehumanized but I do think language matters when speaking of women who feel guilty for having them. That's just me though. I want one and I couldn't live with the guilt, but for some people it might be their only option. Anyway, I'm not here to argue pro-life or pro-choice. I'm not gonna change your mind, and you're not gonna change mine. If you don't have anything else to continue the discussion then deuces 🤙
@Kas19 Lol, I am very calm. When I am not calm I will use CAPs and exclamation points. I am just very direct. You also did not say, "what is the link". You said, "I don't open random links". Vimeo isn't random. You "rather not watch that"... exactly, you are part of the problem. You stick your head in the sand. Ignorance is bliss for you I guess.
@CalmYourTits I don't know you seem pretty irritated. But I gotcha, sorry for the misunderstanding.
And I've had someone on here send me a random link, thinking it was just a video from google drive and it turned out to be child pornography. So I'd rather not open random links. But if what you sent was a video of an abortion procedure, yes I'd prefer not watching that unless I know the details of the video. Not sure why you're so triggered by the fact that I didn't click your video.
Because doesn't have time to explain every Tom Dick and Harry that's why she sent the video link you can be more thoughtful and go look it up yourself on YouTube have a nice day and stop annoying calm your tits she sounds like she's not playing
@Kas19 not triggered. Again, if I was triggered there would be cursing. You’re reading it as me being triggered. My point is, you want your opinion to be valued, yet you refuse to acknowledge the truth. Therefore, don’t say anything at all because it spreads ignorance.
And obviously it’s going to be a video of an abortion. That’s what the topic is.
@CalmYourTits I generally don't care if my opinion is validated. Im just talking since that's what the app is for. You can keep your opinions and I'll keep mine. That's about all this is.
Not sure why you said "obviously" when I still didn't know and refrain from opening random links people give me. Either way, I'd rather not watch that to begin with. So I appreciate you telling me before I did.
@Kas19 If you have someone send you a link that goes to child pornography, you should report that to an Uber moderator (such as me) or Admin so that it can be dealt with immediately. I will hide the post and freeze their account as soon as I see child porn, no exceptions.
@OlderAndWiser I think I did. I try to block it out. It was years ago and I was 16. He was eventually removed. I didn't know what else to do and called the police because a friend told me if I was caught with it I'd go to jail. They just told me to stay off of the internet because I'm naive, and to only text women. As if I expected someone to send me a link of them doing things to a child. 🥴
As a very happy single woman I plan on adopting and doing IFV when the time is right and remaining single so that's an easy answer. I'd definitely raise my child on my own as a single mother.
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I would ask if he wanted it or not.
And from that answer, go with the flow.
Well i have a vasectomy... So if my girl is prego... Houston we have a problem!
It's my fault amd responsibility as much hers
Not really marry , but for the sake
Or just live together like husband wife and parentd
In an ideal world, she’d abort. I am in no shape or form ready, willing or capable of being a father at my age. My main focus is on moving abroad for university (massively profitable in long run) so I wouldn’t want to throw a kid in the mix. But that also holds for the future. With that degree, I’d probably end up in London or NYC. Either way, I do want a lot of flexibility in my first years instead of being bogged down by a family for years.
I mean, I’m barely 21. Way too young!
Uhhh it's not possible that I'm gonna get her pregnant but theoretically I'd consider our options with her and ask her what she wants to do. If she wants to have an abortion or to put it up for adoption, I'll support her completely. If she wants to keep it then I'll help raise them and start a family with her. Remember men, you are not in control of her body. You can't force her to keep it 👏
I would want me and the woman to raise the baby together
I’d be a millionaire. I mean Science isn’t my best subject but I learn I can’t get pregnant or impregnate another woman.
Stick around to take care of it. It was my mess up but at the same time it's a living child and i know how it is to live without a dad in my life.
I would be especially surprised since I don't HAVE a girlfriend and since I've had a TURP, I couldn't get one pregnant if I did have one.
I would love to get married and raise the child together. In reality, I would be the single mother.
I married mine and it was the worst mistake I’ve ever made
Yeah I hear that I had one she can mess up a cup of water that's how bad she was Ama lucky she's breathing
I'd keep the baby and it's up to him to stay or leave.
At my age.. I want to be a father. I know I will be either dead on in a walker by the time they are in high school..
I would want us to sit down and have a converstion for the most important decision of our lives. All the other answers start whith "I would/I would want her to" are for sociopaths
Get really confused, deflate her and put her back in the box.
For everyone who said the abortion option. Go look up how it is done.
I picked E.
Which abortion procedure are you referring to? The pill or when they take out the pregnancy tissue? Abortion procedures are painful but they get the job done.
@Kas19 https://vimeo.com/337571103
I don't open random links. Send me an article with a source if you'd like. I've had people send me fucked up shit on here so I'd rather know what I'm clicking on.
@Kas19 Well, it's a Vimeo link, so that has to be good enough. You don't need an article, you need to see what an abortion looks like. If you want to stick your head in the sand, then it's your choice not to acknowledge it, but it's not because I didn't show you the facts.
@Kas19 "when they take out the pregnancy tissue" You mean when they remove the baby and it dies?
@OlderAndWiser Oh, which procedure type is it? I'd rather not watch that.
@CalmYourTits Please live up to your username so we can have a discussion. All I asked was what the link was.
@Kas19 Totally non-responsive to my comment.
@OlderAndWiser Oh sorry, got mixed up. Anyway, yes. And I'm not sure what you mean by "taking out the baby and it dies." Are you talking about Vacuum Aspiration? There are different types of abortion procedures so I'm not sure which one you're referring to.
@Kas19 The result of every abortion procedure, regardless of how it is done, it the same; a baby is surgically removed from the womb and it dies. It is a baby, not "pregnancy tissue."
@OlderAndWiser Semantics 😌 You knew what I meant didn't you?
@Kas19 Of course I know what you meant. You meant that you want to refer to your unborn baby as "pregnancy tissue" so you can dehumanize it and not think of it as murder when you have an abortion.
I'm not having an abortion. I don't think abortions should be dehumanized but I do think language matters when speaking of women who feel guilty for having them. That's just me though. I want one and I couldn't live with the guilt, but for some people it might be their only option. Anyway, I'm not here to argue pro-life or pro-choice. I'm not gonna change your mind, and you're not gonna change mine. If you don't have anything else to continue the discussion then deuces 🤙
@Kas19 Lol, I am very calm. When I am not calm I will use CAPs and exclamation points. I am just very direct. You also did not say, "what is the link". You said, "I don't open random links". Vimeo isn't random. You "rather not watch that"... exactly, you are part of the problem. You stick your head in the sand. Ignorance is bliss for you I guess.
Calm your tits forget about it it's like preaching to the wall although the wall might move as a miracle you've done your job that's all you can do.
@CalmYourTits I don't know you seem pretty irritated. But I gotcha, sorry for the misunderstanding.
And I've had someone on here send me a random link, thinking it was just a video from google drive and it turned out to be child pornography. So I'd rather not open random links. But if what you sent was a video of an abortion procedure, yes I'd prefer not watching that unless I know the details of the video. Not sure why you're so triggered by the fact that I didn't click your video.
Because doesn't have time to explain every Tom Dick and Harry that's why she sent the video link you can be more thoughtful and go look it up yourself on YouTube have a nice day and stop annoying calm your tits she sounds like she's not playing
@Kas19 not triggered. Again, if I was triggered there would be cursing. You’re reading it as me being triggered. My point is, you want your opinion to be valued, yet you refuse to acknowledge the truth. Therefore, don’t say anything at all because it spreads ignorance.
And obviously it’s going to be a video of an abortion. That’s what the topic is.
@CalmYourTits I generally don't care if my opinion is validated. Im just talking since that's what the app is for. You can keep your opinions and I'll keep mine. That's about all this is.
Not sure why you said "obviously" when I still didn't know and refrain from opening random links people give me. Either way, I'd rather not watch that to begin with. So I appreciate you telling me before I did.
^^Well at least she told you important thing
@Kas19 If you have someone send you a link that goes to child pornography, you should report that to an Uber moderator (such as me) or Admin so that it can be dealt with immediately. I will hide the post and freeze their account as soon as I see child porn, no exceptions.
@OlderAndWiser I think I did. I try to block it out. It was years ago and I was 16. He was eventually removed. I didn't know what else to do and called the police because a friend told me if I was caught with it I'd go to jail. They just told me to stay off of the internet because I'm naive, and to only text women. As if I expected someone to send me a link of them doing things to a child. 🥴
Anyway, trauma over. I try to forget it.
@Kas19 Okay If it happens on this site, please report it. I'll take care of the vermin!
@OlderAndWiser Thank you so much. I'll definitely do that. 😌❤️ I just want these evil bitches out of here.
As a very happy single woman I plan on adopting and doing IFV when the time is right and remaining single so that's an easy answer. I'd definitely raise my child on my own as a single mother.
If the bitch didn't want the child, i would do everything on my hands to support him/her on my own.
I’d keep it but I have absolutely no idea what I would do.
I'm not going to lie, I'd be a little freaked out
In this situation, there is much to freak about!