Get abortion without your boyfriend knowing. No one gets hurrt.
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I considered that qt first but decided that this was my mistake. Either way it's resolved now, I'd delete the thread but it's seen as a "popular thread" now. https ://imgur. com/ 8YtQLXP I have my answer and my way forward, thank you for your suggestion. :)
@lillianaustin I actually agree, I was the dislike on this guy's message. I feel like everything I've built the past seven years has been thrown away and I hate myself.
you shouldn't have done that, especially if you truly loved him, if you did you wouldn't have done this considering this relationship that you've built for seven years. if you had stayed loyal. you could've married your boyfriend and started a family with him, but what can you do? what's done is done.
@lillianaustin I do love him but I just ruined everything... Even if I lie and get rid of the babe my guilt will haunt me. I know I don't deserve sympathy, I'm not trying to ask for it, I just don't know what to do or how to feel other that shitty.
if you do get rid of it, you should still tell him, maybe he'll forgive you and maybe he won't but he'll most likely be mad at you for giving in, for cheating and at his dad for hitting on his girlfriend so he most likely won't forgive you
you're welcome and I hope it works out for you and it will take him time to forgive you, if he was to, and who knows maybe he'll help you raise it? but I don't know for sure
@lillianaustin Okay... Well he seems happy and shocked over text. I guess I'll keep this post up until tonight so I can tell you, as a thanks for helping me. I'm a terrible person and I know it and I don't deserve to be happy but... What else is there to do? I lose in every other way.
@lillianaustin In response to the guy who you want to like you, I find that when something funny happens my boyfriend looks at me a lot or looks at me first when we're in a group, almost as if he wants my permission to laugh. He also touches me a lot (not in a dirty way) he just finds any excuse to touch me, eg. adjust my shirt or something. Try wearing skimper clothes and being a bit flirty, if he likes you he'll respond in kind.
So from what I gather here, you were planning to tell him because he'd know anyways due to the time frame you got pregnant, but then you figured out a way to change/lie about the date, so now you are not going to tell him. So you were not going to tell him because its the right thing to do, and now you figured a way around it so you'll continue to lie... because you love him, but in reality you think he is a fool, and you're treating him like a fool.
@LazyProphet I changed my action based on information I had and ideas I came up with, I feel like you are perhaps trying to make your own narrative there. I love my fianceé.
Sure you have a choice, you're just choosing the selfish route so you don't lose your love, you're not thinking about him at all, completely selfish choice. Oh well, I'll stop lecturing you, have fun knowing that you'll be raising you're finances own brother, and your brother in law.
you shouldn't lie to him about this, if you truly love him, you need to tell him the truth and if he ever gets into a fight with his father, he might let it slip that it's that not his son's, when mad or if he's drunk and then he can either forgive you or he won't
why, why do girls that young, have sex.. especially unprotected. I don't understand it. Please help me understand this girls. why you have sex SO FUCKING YOUNG
We'll see when he gets home, I can't delete the post for 2 days after it's posted and even if I could I've promised to talk to someone about it. Things don't look too bad, I feel anxious and guilty and a little sick, but I think it'll be alright.
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omg, how could you do that to him? would he forgive if we was to find out? is he the forgiving type?
No he won't forgive me, would you?
If i were him, I wouldn't
yes, it would be cowardly to tell him over text, he deserves to know which is why you should tell him in person and try letting him down easy 🤦♀️
I don't wanna face him tbh...
If I were you, I wouldn't want to face him either
Tsk tsk tsk.
@yofuknutz what? 🤔
Tbh, if you can't face him then at least tell him by text or phone, or email, or however tf you wanna tell him, as long as you tell him
Get abortion without your boyfriend knowing. No one gets hurrt.
I considered that qt first but decided that this was my mistake. Either way it's resolved now, I'd delete the thread but it's seen as a "popular thread" now.
https ://imgur. com/ 8YtQLXP
I have my answer and my way forward, thank you for your suggestion. :)
Saving your relationship is up to your boyfriend. However, if you want a chance at it you need to be open and honest with him and ask for forgiveness.
No you can't. At least not by keeping it a secret from him. The only option you have its to tell him the truth and hope for the best.
This is awesome! Lmao have you thought about moving to Kentucky?
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Leave him asap he don't deserve you.
Without Saying anything just leave him.
Never if you want to save relationship than go n face him. But prepare for Strom.
he doesn't deserve her? it's the other way around, she doesn't deserve him
@Anon1996thesecond no offense, by the way
@lillianaustin I actually agree, I was the dislike on this guy's message. I feel like everything I've built the past seven years has been thrown away and I hate myself.
you shouldn't have done that, especially if you truly loved him, if you did you wouldn't have done this considering this relationship that you've built for seven years. if you had stayed loyal. you could've married your boyfriend and started a family with him, but what can you do? what's done is done.
@lillianaustin I do love him but I just ruined everything... Even if I lie and get rid of the babe my guilt will haunt me.
I know I don't deserve sympathy, I'm not trying to ask for it, I just don't know what to do or how to feel other that shitty.
if you do get rid of it, you should still tell him, maybe he'll forgive you and maybe he won't but he'll most likely be mad at you for giving in, for cheating and at his dad for hitting on his girlfriend so he most likely won't forgive you
and you should try explaining the situation, either way it's his choice
@lillianaustin Thank you for helping me.
you're welcome and I hope it works out for you and it will take him time to forgive you, if he was to, and who knows maybe he'll help you raise it? but I don't know for sure
@lillianaustin I doubt that but thank you again anyway... at least I can talk to people anonymously in this day and age, thank God for the internet.
you're welcome and yeah, your right about that, thank god for the internet
Just go n talk to him.
Love make people blind he will forgive you.
I'm telling him it's his... I Don have a choice.
Girl I bet he will forgive you.
Treat me later lol
you shouldn't lie and I hope, he believes it, but his father might let it slip
let me know what happens once you tell him
Guys are asshole in love
I'm telling you he will forgive her after lots of drama just stay cool during he blast 😂
I hope he does, though 😂
He will he will he will
She just need to cool when he blast. I know guys how they feel when they are in love 😂😂
@lillianaustin Okay... Well he seems happy and shocked over text. I guess I'll keep this post up until tonight so I can tell you, as a thanks for helping me.
I'm a terrible person and I know it and I don't deserve to be happy but... What else is there to do? I lose in every other way.
wait, I need to ask you something, about this guy that I like. I want to know if he likes me back from a guy's perspective
Don't text girl meet him personally and don't uttar a word when he blast and hugged him when he cool down and than you're safe. 😂
I know him in person, he's a family friend
oh wait, I was confused, you were talking to her. lol
Yeah I was talking to her. Lol she need help. You can pm me. Lol
let me know what happens
yes, I know, sorry 😂
@lillianaustin In response to the guy who you want to like you, I find that when something funny happens my boyfriend looks at me a lot or looks at me first when we're in a group, almost as if he wants my permission to laugh.
He also touches me a lot (not in a dirty way) he just finds any excuse to touch me, eg. adjust my shirt or something.
Try wearing skimper clothes and being a bit flirty, if he likes you he'll respond in kind.
omg wait, he makes a joke, and looks at me to see if i'm laughing
Wait let me buy popcorn I'm njoying 😂😂
can you DM me? i'll show you what he does and you can tell me what you think
heyyy 😂
So from what I gather here, you were planning to tell him because he'd know anyways due to the time frame you got pregnant, but then you figured out a way to change/lie about the date, so now you are not going to tell him. So you were not going to tell him because its the right thing to do, and now you figured a way around it so you'll continue to lie... because you love him, but in reality you think he is a fool, and you're treating him like a fool.
@LazyProphet I changed my action based on information I had and ideas I came up with, I feel like you are perhaps trying to make your own narrative there.
I love my fianceé.
Lol, I'm sure you do, you just love his father's dick as well.
Sure you have a choice, you're just choosing the selfish route so you don't lose your love, you're not thinking about him at all, completely selfish choice. Oh well, I'll stop lecturing you, have fun knowing that you'll be raising you're finances own brother, and your brother in law.
you shouldn't lie to him about this, if you truly love him, you need to tell him the truth and if he ever gets into a fight with his father, he might let it slip that it's that not his son's, when mad or if he's drunk and then he can either forgive you or he won't
Lol she is just a troll 🤣🤣🤣
why, why do girls that young, have sex.. especially unprotected. I don't understand it. Please help me understand this girls. why you have sex SO FUCKING YOUNG
I'm 25... It's old if anything, darling.
You were 17 and he was 19 1/2 when you met. That is just wrong
Um... Okay.
yeah
Because gag Mother Nature that's why
Damn I hope you're doing ok
I am as okay as I could be. Things are hectic but I am continuing on.
how do you know he is the father?
lol no you're done and rightly so
We'll see when he gets home, I can't delete the post for 2 days after it's posted and even if I could I've promised to talk to someone about it.
Things don't look too bad, I feel anxious and guilty and a little sick, but I think it'll be alright.
All I can say is... HOLY CHRIST!
Your relationship is good as dead.
Welp get a abortion and start keeping secerts.
Only resolution I can see bro !
You watch way too much porn
Get his father to pay for an abortion
A Jerry Springer moment...
Right? I could almost see an episode being made inside my head
Just tell him and see how it goes.
I have no sympathy for cheating scum
What relationship?