Don't get rid of your cats. They will love you and be your best freinds as long as they live. What if it doesn't work out with your lady friend? Well you gave up your loyal companions and have nothing.
This is legit the hardest question I’ve ever been asked on here I’m putting myself in your shoes and if she’s the one I say find a really really nice home for them but I would miss tf outta my cat
Maybe try brushing them about once a week, and there’s this burts bees anti dandruff spray that’s good for cat dander. One of my friends has a domestic short hair and that’s how he keeps his allergies in check
I've used that too, but check out the stuff for shedding as well. It's different. If you have a male cat that has ever had a urinary blockage, you probably should keep up the urinary food too.
That’s a tough call, I would really have to know that she is the one in order to consider that, maybe you stay at her place more often instead or she can take allergy shots for the time being until you know if you’re really going to be with her for good
That is a good question. I don't think I would end up dating someone long enough to think they were the one if my pets were a deal breaker. But I'm young and I've only been in love once so it's hard to say
If she hated them I would kick my girlfriend out and put my attention to the cats for being disrespected.
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Personally let’s shouldn’t just be disregarded. I’d have an issue with anyone who expected that. When you take on a pet you’re responsible for them, the good and the bad. They’re not a commodity.
She has never asked me to do anything about the cats except keep them out of the bedroom when she is here. But I see how she reacts with red eyes, funny nose, etc.
Ah okay. Has she tried antihistamines? Allergies are common as we age. Maybe see if you can find a good second home for them where they’ll be well looked after, and incorporate them in there gradually if you two are serious.
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I would get a new girlfriend. Pets are more always important than some bimbo. LOL
pets are important, but this girl isn't a bimbo.
Pick yer poison. LOL
Don't we all?
Don't get rid of your cats. They will love you and be your best freinds as long as they live. What if it doesn't work out with your lady friend? Well you gave up your loyal companions and have nothing.
Aww🥺 is your girlfriend that important because I would never choose a woman over my pet (family)
Is my girlfriend that important? Is that a serious question? Yes, as I have said, I think she is The One.
This is legit the hardest question I’ve ever been asked on here I’m putting myself in your shoes and if she’s the one I say find a really really nice home for them but I would miss tf outta my cat
Yes, that is the position I am in. I think she is The One AND I love my cats.
I wouldn’t in the least.
Maybe get a few good air purifiers?
They shed like crazy. I change the filter on my air handler about every six weeks.
Maybe try brushing them about once a week, and there’s this burts bees anti dandruff spray that’s good for cat dander. One of my friends has a domestic short hair and that’s how he keeps his allergies in check
Science Diet has food that really limits shedding and is very good for them.
@msc545 I already feed them a Science Diet for urinary health.
I've used that too, but check out the stuff for shedding as well. It's different. If you have a male cat that has ever had a urinary blockage, you probably should keep up the urinary food too.
Never getting rid of my pets! We'll figure something else out.
Find them a good home. If it doesn't work out with the girlfriend maybe you can get them back or else get two new cats.
That’s a tough call, I would really have to know that she is the one in order to consider that, maybe you stay at her place more often instead or she can take allergy shots for the time being until you know if you’re really going to be with her for good
We have been spending 3-4 days per week together for the past 4 months.
Well I hope she is definitely the one
Me, too!
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I would never get rid of my pets especially cats. I'd love them too dearly. I couldn't date some who's allergic to them/doesn't like them.
Whichever I had first stays. My cat ain't going anywhere. My partner wpuld have to learn to deal with that and we'd hang somewhere my cats aren't
6 months isn't long enough for me 2 give up my cats for someone
Never in a million years would I give my pet away because of someone else’s allergies. My cat is my life. I’d never give her up for someone else.
No, I would never get rid of my cat. She is precious to me.
I could never, I love my animals too much
Could you get rid of a girlfriend who you thought was The One?
That is a good question. I don't think I would end up dating someone long enough to think they were the one if my pets were a deal breaker. But I'm young and I've only been in love once so it's hard to say
When you are 66 and have had a number of failed relationships, the idea of passing up a good match is a bitter pill to swallow.
Fair enough
There is no bitch, that can compete with this bitch
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Fuck the girl, pets are for life she can just live on antihistamines.
The girlfriend has to go. If she is meant for you then she can deal with the pets.
If she hated them I would kick my girlfriend out and put my attention to the cats for being disrespected.
Personally let’s shouldn’t just be disregarded. I’d have an issue with anyone who expected that. When you take on a pet you’re responsible for them, the good and the bad. They’re not a commodity.
*pets
She has never asked me to do anything about the cats except keep them out of the bedroom when she is here. But I see how she reacts with red eyes, funny nose, etc.
Ah okay. Has she tried antihistamines? Allergies are common as we age.
Maybe see if you can find a good second home for them where they’ll be well looked after, and incorporate them in there gradually if you two are serious.
We are quite serious. I would not send them to any other home unless they will be kept indoors well fed, and showered with love.
There's medicine for pet allergies. I would never get rid of my furbabies.
No, the girl would go before my cat would. I was abandoned by my father, so I would never do that to a pet.
Do background checks on the family (ies) who get the cats. Good luck.