How can I get my boyfriend to let me measure him?

[Anonymous]

So I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months, and well, his penis is perfect for me. I've had bigger, and smaller, and his is just the best size, the sex is amazing, and I don't think it's possible to find a penis I enjoy more.

So, I'm wanting to know how big it is, so I can know my preference, and he refuses to, says he's never measured it himself (which I don't believe, EVERY guy does at some point), I don't know why, he knows I love it, why can't he just let me? I tried while he was asleep once and he woke up and got mad.

[caring__1]

There are only two reasons for measuring him. One is you're preparing to leave him and want to know the size to shoot for with the next one, and two is wanting juicy intimate tidbits to brag about with friends and family. How would you feel if he wanted to measure every aspect of your body? If you say that's different, as you're not asking to measure every aspect, let's limit it to the areas where you feel most insecure. Would you appreciate him sharing these measurements with his buddies or coworkers or family?

One of the most common reasons for relationships to end is when people think only about what they feel entitled to and don't bother to consider how that might impact the other. What if he wanted to share his treasure with others while you were sleeping in the same bed? If it's just your desire that makes this OK, then his desire should make his wish OK.

By the way, you're still inexperienced and apparently haven't discovered it's not what a person has but how they use it that makes it special.

[MTC29]

Let's look at this from another perspective:

So, I've been with my girlfriend for about 9 months, and well, her vagina is perfect for me. I've had bigger, and smaller, but hers is just the best size. The sex is amazing, and I don't think it's possible to find a vagina I enjoy more.

So, I'm wanting to know how big it is, so I can know my preference, but she refuses. I don't know why, she knows I love it, why can't she just let me? I tried inserting a pocket ruler into her while she was asleep once, but she woke up and got mad.

Good luck.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Sounds painful. Why not a dildo with ruler marks in it? She isn't trying to measure you with a sandpaper tape measure

[MTC29]

@Ez-Bri-Z I'm sorry, I was just joking around. I never meant to suggest actually inserting a ruler into a woman's body! I suppose it was tasteless. I'd delete it if I could. Instead, I apologize.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

What... no. I am joking back with you. Wait.. you don't want me to actually find a sandpaper tape measure do you. *eyes suspiciously but with some interest*

[Nifrayu]

Just explain to him why you want to exactly like you did here. Just explain why it's important to you. But if he still isn't comfortable with that, then you need to let it go. I can understand why he isn't comfortable with that and he probably expects you to understand it as well. If you keep pressing him, he might start to think you don't care about making him uncomfortable.

[stateman]

wait what do you want to measure your boyfriends' penis size that's hilarious well maybe he is not comfortable with the idea of measuring the body part.
I don't know what kind of suggestion should I give if he is the stubborn type he will not let you measure it doesn't matter what you do until he is conscious I guess ( one of the suggestion is hidden in this if you are smart enough figuring it out you can try that.)

[Hairylegs222]

To me, guys who measure their junk and go around telling people I'm this long are pathetic. They have a HUGE ego and little confidence. Maybe your man feels similar about it. What I recommend is to measure by your hands instead. For example both of your hands fit on it plus the head sticking out.

[Anonymous]

You can try to have fun with him, flirt, compliment him, and in a flirty moment you can try to pull out the tape measure. If he really doesn't want to do it you'd have to respect that, but if you build up to a nice and flirty moment he'll be less likely to decline. Some guys are shy, others not. Personally I can't see the big deal, I've been measure by most of my girlfriend's as well as my best female friend.

[TheBootyChest]

Just tell him you are dying to know how big he is and that you want to get him as hard as he can get. Maybe you need to let him do whatever he wants to do so he can get hard enough.

[spartan55]

You need to let that shit go. I'm surprised he didn't dump you for trying that shit while he slept? Wtf is wrong with you?

[rcljr]

If it’s perfect for you, don’t worry about it. The only reason you’d need the measurement is to find a different one the same size, and I’m sure your b/f is thinking the same thing.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

When he is pitching a tent walk up to him & act like you are going to give him a blowjob & when he drops his shorts pull out a measuring tape.

[SomeThrowAway]

If you've told him this and you're trying to size him up he might think you're looking for a replacement in the same size.

[RealMarek]

Just extend your hand along it and remember where the end of it was relative to your hand, then measure that distance later.

[NathanDavis]

just extend your hand/arm on it... see where it reaches to, and then measure that, accurate enough

[Anonymous]

You wanting to measure it is making him feel insecure about it. And if you are with him forever, you don't need to know because you'll always have his "perfect" one right? lol

[Twalli]

He probably doesn't want to know or care. Also he may think that you want to know it so to6u can find another guy with the same size and dump him fir the other guy.

[exitseven]

I would let you measure me if you would take an IQ test for me.

[CreamySeed]

Know your preference? Why for future dicks? I would be offended

[rcljr]

Exactly my thought, I’m sure her b/f is thinking same thing.

[KrakenAttackin]

So he is just the latest cock in your cock hopping adventures, got it.

[Wise4myage]

Don't ask, just do it. He won't mind unless he's real small.

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why you need to know a preference
But you can assume a very small size and say it out loud. He will get insecure and say the real size

[Joker_]

Measure it while he's sleeping

[Yourfriend2021]

Have fun.