Sex work is still work, and it's a way to make money. If my partner did sex work I wouldn't judge them for it, or be jealous. It's a job, like any other, and as long as we communicated about it. It's when people hide things that I get nervous. But no, I wouldn't care if their friend had one, I don't care if they have one. Money is money and work is work. As long as we communicate about what our relationship means and what boundaries there are in their work (to make sure that protection is being used and we're being safe because of the potential for disease depending what their work is) that's all that matters to me.
There's a difference between work and cheating, to me, and I don't care of that work is sex work.
I don't really respect people who make their money selling sex. It's a zero skill game.
But in your question, the person is too far removed to be that significant. It's their life. If it's not your partner or close friend, it doesn't really matter, it's not something that they're seeking your approval or acceptance of at all.
I guess you think about negative influence of the friend on her. I trust my partner in her personal choices and morality if she disappoints me she doesn't deserve my trust anyway and I will reconsider my attitude.
At some point I stopped to have any expectation, I just give something if my partner deserves or I don't
If it's as distant as it sounds, that a partners friend has only fans, then I wouldn't mind. If the partner was looking at the only fans and you felt uncomfortable? Then I think it would be time to have a talk about everyone's needs, and how their actions make each other feel.
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It depends on the situation, if it's a close friend of mine who is a female I would keep my distance and let them do them.
If it's my husband that has a female friend, that friend would turn into a aquatintance fast or just no longer a friend. My husband would probably not even mess with that and probably keep his distance himself by choice.
If it is a distant friend the only question in my head is how does he know she has an only fans. I draw the line and that's a pretty private world for a girl and guy. For many girls they are open like that about private stuff it can be dangerous telling people your a sex worker. If it's a male obviously not cause he is not into men and never was like that with his buds.
If it was a male friend on my side my hubby wouldn't be comfortable with it and ask me to just keep it distant.
I really wouldn’t care.
I have opened up to some of my ex friends about trying onlyfans. I even opened up to my mom about it and she is supportive of it and says she won’t “disown” me cause it. She knows I have body dysmorphia and thinks this is my way to experiment and open up to people.
This wouldn’t bother me at all. That is their friend’s business and not mine.
I wouldn't care. It's someone I don't know, or am only acquainted with.
It would only become an issue if the friend was looking to involve my girlfriend in their content.
u a friend of mine has an OnlyFans... lol
but I'm single, so I have no idea what a girlfriend would think about that but I know that it doesn't have to matter that significantly
I have friends that do it and have for ages.
just not an issue.
Right up to the point when I find out she has also engaged in the only fans play with her friend or by herself, I don’t date whores.
lol i don't care. as long as it's not her doing onlyfans.
I wouldn't care
If it doesn't actively affect my life then I don't give a fuck
What they are doing with their own time and lives isn't any of my business.
Fine by me, I have friends who do it:/
I wouldn't respect that friend but it wouldn't bother me that they are friends
Gross.
It’s a problem because I don’t respect that person. I see one of those relationships falling apart.
If she has a friend that does it? Wouldn't care. Would if she did though
Wait I read that wrong. Why would you care about what the friend of your S. O does? Better question would be how would you feel if your S. O had one
It wouldn't bother me, i mind my business
I wouldn't care none of my business
Some of my friends are literal scum. Having an OnlyFans doesn't even register.
people are known by the company they keep. CYA!
doesn't bother me they look at all kinds of things
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