If I give them the individual a chance it's a one off. She does it again she's dead to my life. Total delete and never turning back. Not even to be vengeful with pics of new girl. Just now, getting out no longer exist to me after a second time. Also it would have to be a one and done. As in she cheated or started to cheat and regretted my t instantly and came back and confessed and begged for another chance. Even then she's gonna have to make a lot of sacrifices to show me she loves me. The biggest sacrifice would be giving me my space while I process and her not screwing around while i figure it out. And also treating me like the damn prize after.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy depends imho. If i got kids involved I might have to consider things. Mostly because i came from a broken home and dont want that for my kids. Sometimes divorces are amicable but the one my parents had was traumatic and life altering and it kept hurting me long after. Although it was nice to get away from my abusive mother it also had me living on poverty out of a hotel with my dad. So it's not so black and white in my book.
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Yep. Assholes, the whole lot of them.
People can change. I for one believe in redemption
Not necessarily but often
Yep, it’s in their psyche.
No, but still i won't take the risk
Not true. People can change and never do it again.
If I give them the individual a chance it's a one off. She does it again she's dead to my life. Total delete and never turning back. Not even to be vengeful with pics of new girl. Just now, getting out no longer exist to me after a second time. Also it would have to be a one and done. As in she cheated or started to cheat and regretted my t instantly and came back and confessed and begged for another chance. Even then she's gonna have to make a lot of sacrifices to show me she loves me. The biggest sacrifice would be giving me my space while I process and her not screwing around while i figure it out. And also treating me like the damn prize after.
@t-8900: You're not supposed to take back a woman that cheated on you. It's what a sucka will do. You forgive her and move on.
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy depends imho. If i got kids involved I might have to consider things. Mostly because i came from a broken home and dont want that for my kids. Sometimes divorces are amicable but the one my parents had was traumatic and life altering and it kept hurting me long after. Although it was nice to get away from my abusive mother it also had me living on poverty out of a hotel with my dad. So it's not so black and white in my book.
I guess it just depends on the person
Yes..
I agree.
agree
Yeshhhh
I agree