Where do controlling men (not all) learn to be controlling? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2021-11-10T20:12:04Z

I got out of a controlling relationship a couple years ago. He would threaten to break up every single time we argued. He's the one that always started an argument, always raised his voice first. I had enough one day, dumped him and blocked him. Ex: We went out to eat once and I kindly told him to try putting the phone down for a moment so we can enjoy our quality time. He made an avalanche out of it, claiming I've embarrassed in front of clients and everyone, how I'm suddenly ungrateful and kept yelling. I was confused and couldn't understand what was that all about. I dated other afterwards. I've recently dumped his current boyfriend right after the first ''If you don't, our relationship is over''. My reply was an ''ok then leave, bye, out''. Luckily I've only had 2 controlling men out of many normal dudes. Seriously where do these controlling men learn to be controlling? Why do they feel the need to give ultimatums, to create arguments, to yell out of nothing?

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Their parents/childhood environment

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Usually by their Parents.

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When they collide with chaos

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It's not learnt behaviour.

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