In my experience, I used to believe actually girls were typically more mature than men, I guess in part because I bought into the girls' own self proclaimed maturity status. If you ask me now, I think girls are just a bunch of arrogant idiots in similar percentage as men's. It seems that girls call immature what they don't like or what does not suit their female brain wiring. Ex, if a man speaks his mind bluntly and rudely, he's immature and violent, if a girl does, she's a progressive, liberated, emancipated, modern, empowered, strong woman. And calling men immature it's a very typical and easy excuse they use to get away with their own sh*t and yet pretend not to be called on it. Example, just last week we were having a conversation and this guy was saying somethinggg, this girl just kept interrupting him saying 'you're not answering the question' and he kept saying 'if you let me finish I'll...' ' you're not answering the question' and so on, so finally the guy told her if she shuts the f*** up and give him a chance to say what he's got to say maybe he can have a chance to answer the question. Guess who was named the typical immature boy in a man's body? And guess who had the typical violent male with aggressive behavior , even though the girl told him 'i felt I wanted to smash your head'.
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because they usually mature 2 years sooner than us.
The women are probably hurt; and maybe feel defensive especially if it's about sexual history.
Like how would you feel if the girl you really liked said she didn't want sex with you anymore because it wasn't satisfying?
You'd get alll hurt and defensive, and start slurring out insults, because men feel insecure when they can't sexually provide for a women -
And women feel insecure if she feels like she's being labeled as a whore or slut, because her boyfriend highlights her sexual history.
I think men talking about women's sexual history can be hypocritical, as a good amount of guys have multiple previous partners. Why is it fair men can have colorful sexual histories, but can ridicule women for having the same?
So maybe that's how she felt and why those women called you those things.
wat exactly is your question? you are talking about particular women.. women you were with? why do you keep dating women with many past lovers if it bothers you. are you sure you are not looking for someone to feel superior to. are you sure you don't love rejecting women & you can't do it on looks because that reflects poorly and u, that can't date attractive women. same thing with crazy.. o. you want to be with women who guys desire, s you can reject the, because you are more mature.
i think if you keep encountering this problem you should probably see someone for it. tell the therapist, you are perseverating, and it is intefering with healthy adult relationships.
Everyone goes through immaturity, but men tend to show extremely immature behavior even as adults like 30's 40's.
How can you expect women to answer for another women that we don't even know? lol why don't you just ask her why she called you immature?
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men are somtimes called that cos they fnd rude jokes funny and which lyke makes them really imiture wen infact they aree just havin a laff they wimen are more imatire tho in sum ways cince most cnt fight and protect themselfs in fights and for that need men 2 protect dem and so in sum ways m en are mor mature cos they need 2 look after wimen who in sum says are lyke kids in that they need to be looked after my men as the wimen are week and feble and cnt protect temselfs agaynst muggers and feefs who is triying to mug them off I think at the end of the day men and wimen are both mature and imiture in there own ways and which such makes them gd partners and m8s (but not lyke a guys m8 hoo you play football wiv and drink beer) but sol m8s and sex m8s hoo you act difrentely 2 most of year men mates if you no what I'm sayin?
Women want to control men and most men don't know how they do it, that's why they call men immature. Guy to guy interaction is mostly positive and don't try to control each other in such a way, so in result don't learn such nasty tricks or aren't even bothered for the most part. Deep down inside women are the ones who are really immature, craving for attention all the time, yes I do find women as crazy human beings. Healthy human beings aren't attention seekers and focus more on strength as a unity. That's why male to male friends are stronger in the long run.
EACH gender has sh*tty people in it, it's not just one or the other. Not every woman calls men immature, and not every guy whines like a little bitch like you. Games are for immature people, just because you have some frustration don't take it out like a whiney little child.
men... they can be serious if they need to be.. but when they are off duty, they can be idiots. They have a lot of TOYS. I'm not talking about sex toys, but perhaps, a video game collection, comic collection, card collection, collectable action figures. Stuff that appears to be childish to many women, but it's truly their way of keeping themselves entertained.
I don't get your question.
Did you turn some girl down because of her sexual history and so she called you immature?That's what immature people do...
Because many of them are.
Because it's the truth ...
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