Relationships Do relationships happen to you or do you choose them? (Page 2) Evealyn Follow Xper 3 Age: 30 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 10 Do relationships happen to you or do you choose them? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 1 likes
whosnumber1 Follow Xper 7 Age: 47 +1 y they just happen. I love the initial spark and connection 1 0 Reply
I_Am_Sazerac Follow Xper 5 Age: 30 +1 y Men aren't allowed to choose, we are chosen. It falls into our laps and the choice we have then is choose to go with it or don't. 1 0 Reply
joshctlee Follow Xper 6 Age: 32 +1 y For men they just happen because the choice is up to the female. 1 0 Reply
Tabasco25 Follow Xper 4 Age: 35 +1 y I want people to choose to have time for relationships to happen. So kinda both 1 0 Reply
InferiorElegy Follow Yoda Age: 36 +1 y 451 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Neither, relationships definitely don't happen for guys like me and as guys we don't choose we get chosen. 1 0 Reply
Shiningtempest Follow Explorer Age: 28 +1 y @evealyn I choose them because letting a relationship happen to me is a recipe for failure. 0 0 Reply
FreyaRed Follow Guru Age: 23 , mho 39% +1 y 520 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I choose, otherwise I had a lot more. 1 0 Reply
20yearsolder Follow Master Age: 38 , mho 30% +1 y 700 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think most of the time they just happen 1 0 Reply
jasco Follow Guru Age: 21 +1 y 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. i choose them sense no one wants to ask me out 1 0 Reply
Babygirl_S Follow Guru Age: 27 +1 y 619 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I choose them. 1 0 Reply
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they just happen. I love the initial spark and connection
Men aren't allowed to choose, we are chosen. It falls into our laps and the choice we have then is choose to go with it or don't.
For men they just happen because the choice is up to the female.
I want people to choose to have time for relationships to happen. So kinda both
Neither, relationships definitely don't happen for guys like me and as guys we don't choose we get chosen.
I think it's a little of both
@evealyn I choose them because letting a relationship happen to me is a recipe for failure.
I choose, otherwise I had a lot more.
I think most of the time they just happen
i choose them sense no one wants to ask me out
I believe they happen. You cannot predict it.
Usually just happens.
Sure doesn’t feel like I get to choose them.
I choose them
I choose them.
abit of both.