My girlfriend was being very short over text last week and I asked her what’s up… she said she wanted space because we saw each other pretty frequently the past couple weeks. This week I’ve been getting Snapchat‘s from her as if she’s sending them to everyone… and I reply and she responded a few times. Little confused cuz she wants space but still wants to talk slightly. She recently sent one not looking very good and very sore, and I asked if she’s ok… but no response. I want to message her directly but feel like I’ll get a very short answer… and I don’t wanna be brushed off as I care about her. I was debating on asking one of her best friends if she’s ok but not sure if that’s over stepping boundaries when I could just be asking her directly. Her best friend has asked me in recent family hardships when I’ve been by her side, why she didn’t answer her. And I told her cuz she’s just sad. But I feel left out as if I did something really wrong (handing out too much) to result in this silence.
What should you do when your long-term girlfriend asks for space but still Snapchats you like everyone else? Also very short with text replies?
