Why do guys say they want a good decent women then get her and change up? (Page 2)

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I’ve been seeing this guy for a while now. He always tell me how he doesn’t deal with anyone and how he does not have any family. He’s pretty much a loner. When I asked him about his past relationship’s he would say they didn’t work out because the females cheated on him. I asked him what it was he wanted and was looking for. He said to be happy with someone he could trust and build a future with. Me being myself would invite him over, cook for him and try to be nurturing and loving. He would push away and not want to cuddle then want too or then say I love you but then say it’s all different for me because I’m tying to be better but I’m messed up inside. I have pulled away and started calling him less because he’s like a mystery. He would contact me saying “I’m sorry I love you and I’m trying and I’m not use to this.” This seems to happen often with him. His actions are everywhere he’s into me then he’s pulling away and I am over it. What I’m looking for in a relationship is definitely not what he’s probably looking for even though he says it is. I was trying to be something different for him but it’s not working.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Because you Girls keep going for the same type of Men.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Since you're an older woman that in fact has plenty of options.. Move the fuck on. Perhaps in the future don't be so overbearing, and stop trying to fix the broken.

Heilelliotrodger · Answer

😂 a good woman. thanks I needed a good laugh today

noohair · Answer

He is who he is and is not fixable.

In_Trance · Answer

That's a lot of appreciation...

Miristheiss · Answer

He may have too much emotional baggage.

Anonymous · Answer

Mental illness

Why do guys say they want a good decent women then get her and change up? (Page 2)

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