My boyfriend never wanted a child, and I have undergone multiple surgeries and was told I couldn't have children. Somehow by miracle, it happened very very early in our relationship. I am now 8 months pregnant, and couldn't bring myself to abort due to a history of miscarriages. My boyfriend says I ruined his life, f**ked him over, and he hates his life now. He has said everything from "I hate you", to "I hope it dies". He said he wants me, but never wanted "a 3rd". I genuinely thought that I was doing the right thing, and I don't know what else to do.
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I feel the need to stress that if our relationship was always this bad, I wouldn't stay. He is an incredibly sweet, vulnerable and affectionate person who dips in and out of these mood swings; but when he's angry, he has a nasty habit of saying whatever he can to hurt me. There are fleeting glimmers where he gets mildly excited, like when we learned we were having a boy, but it isn't long before he falls back into feeling deceived because we thought I couldn't get pregnant
I feel the need to stress that if our relationship was always this bad, I wouldn't stay. He is an incredibly sweet, vulnerable and affectionate person who dips in and out of these mood swings; but when he's angry, he has a nasty habit of saying whatever he can to hurt me. There are fleeting glimmers where he gets mildly excited, like when we learned we were having a boy, but it isn't long before he falls back into feeling deceived because we thought I couldn't get pregnant
