Could you handle dating someone who brings in their entire family to your place you brought? (Page 2)

Question

Just imagine you are dating this real great guy or girl and the two of you have decided to both buy a house together. But out of the blue you noticed that the person you are in a committed relationship with have decided to moved their family and extended family inside of the house to without your input in the matter. You was thinking that you and your SO would only be the person who be living in the house but you wasn't suspecting that his or her family would also be moving in the house. How would you react with the news? Believe me girls I love family as much as much as the next person but I wouldn't date a girl who would literally move all of her family in the new house, I would realistically find it as a kick in face knowing that I am sharing my future house with my girl's family so I probably wouldn't be with her in the long run. But what about you men and women could you handle dating someone who brings their entire family to a place you brought with your own money? Remember your significant other isn't letting his or her family pay rent or stuff so basically you will have a bunch of freeloader in the house, would you still love the man or woman?

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Here in Thailand, surprises like that are common. Counter measure: get a SMALL house only. If the others are still interested to join: offer a tent in the back yard.

TroyDT · Answer

"Just imagine you are dating this real great guy or girl and the two of you have decided to both buy a house together." Monumental mistake right there.

ElementoP · Answer

If your name is on the deed, no one can move in without your permission Home owners have rights

anon1903 · Answer

I hardly tolerate my own family, let alone theirs

Chaser3232 · Answer

No!, not without prior discussion. Disrespectful, rude and controlling! That’s a big indication of a bigger problem!

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

If it was frickin 40 bedroom mansion I wouldn’t care but if we are buying a regular house and she did it without telling me beforehand than I would not be ok with that at all

Phoenix98 · Answer

I justifiably would be pretty angry that’s not an ok thing to do without telling someone.

Juxtapose · Answer

Lawyer up, chances are she planned for this.

dophix · Answer

I don't think I can handle it. It's a stress and pressure!

Anonymous · Answer

I am LOUD in bed, definitely would never want my parents or his to live with us.

Shy_Steve · Answer

I Reckon it's rude and disrespectful aswell, I would want to breakup with her.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Holy crap.. I can't believe someone would do that 😳

Anonymous · Answer

Where did you find this stock art? I think I recognize the guy in the top picture.

Anon0 · Answer

Not without prior consent. What if you want to have sex?

Anonymous · Answer

my significant other's family is always welcome in my home anytime. the door is always open for them

moonpie89 · Answer

Honestly I could tolerate it

lightbulb27 · Answer

That’s messed up without some communication.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't think I could handle it

zagor · Answer

Not gonna happen.

Libertycityguy · Answer

There might be someone choking someone out.

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