Seriously it's frustrating not even when your dad is not giving u out any years soon... but now he his getting married to someone else it's more frustrating truth.
That's not love. Could be considered a potential homewrecker.. Anyway, move on. Find someone that you can have and love, be happy with and raise great children with.
Accept you can’t have them and move on. Time will heal you.
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Get used to it.
Men learn to accept this much younger then women because we get rejected a lot more. We get no leeway to complain about it either. So welcome to the club.
@Clyde_123 if you can't have them, then obsessing about them does you no good. And that applies in different ways.
Lets say they like you too, but they're in a relationship and you're waiting around for them. What reason do they have to make a move? If you're going out and meeting new people, then they'll feel the pressure that they might lose an opportunity. That might force their hand. There's not much that's more powerful than a love interest slipping away.
If they make the decision to not pursue, then you have a solid answer. No matter what they said to you, they chose something else. And you didn't waste a year or whatever on someone who was never gonna come around.
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You forget about them and find someone you do have because there's billions of people on the planet
*you can have
You just have to confess your love so that you can get that weight off your chest and this will help you move forward
Seriously it's frustrating not even when your dad is not giving u out any years soon... but now he his getting married to someone else it's more frustrating truth.
That's not love. Could be considered a potential homewrecker.. Anyway, move on. Find someone that you can have and love, be happy with and raise great children with.
Push yourself to move on but take your time and don’t lie to yourself you’re over
I look at this way. I can't have you, so we find someone else.
Accept you can’t have them and move on. Time will heal you.
Get used to it.
Men learn to accept this much younger then women because we get rejected a lot more. We get no leeway to complain about it either. So welcome to the club.
Knowing that and moving on because you're aware you can't have him.
@JosyJosy but of course you can have me 😙
@scooogy Not interested though.
@JosyJosy 😭
Move on and wait. Time is the only thing that works in my experience.
I just try to get rid of the feelings especially if me and the person i like have never had an actual conversation
Realize that your infatuation is not meant to be, avoid falling into one-itis, and find someone else.
You take it like a champ and move on. Because there's nothing you can do.
I just go meet someone else. You can't not think about someone. You have to think about someone else.
Right
Why waste time on him/her? lol
@Clyde_123 if you can't have them, then obsessing about them does you no good. And that applies in different ways.
Lets say they like you too, but they're in a relationship and you're waiting around for them. What reason do they have to make a move? If you're going out and meeting new people, then they'll feel the pressure that they might lose an opportunity. That might force their hand. There's not much that's more powerful than a love interest slipping away.
If they make the decision to not pursue, then you have a solid answer. No matter what they said to you, they chose something else. And you didn't waste a year or whatever on someone who was never gonna come around.
Making a move doesn't always mean moving TOWARD.
Easily. If they don't want me, then it's very easy for me to not want them.
That’s not love. It’s easy to forget someone you weren’t that bothered about.
I am very aware of what love is. Just because I have the ability to switch that part off, doesn't make it any less real.
Sounds Ike a mental health issue. Seek help.
Be realistic... They're not the last person in the world you would like...
Let them know and wean yourself off of them. Ya gotta move forward
First tell me who is that and i will let you in on a secret 😸
If you know that you can’t have someone. You need to put them out of your mind and find someone new to occupy your time and give your love to!