I'm not sure if I'm overeacting or being upset without reason...
So had a few instances where my girlfriend has a gay friend and he's been inappropriate and talked about sexual things and impregnating her, later to find out she was going to be a surrogate... tried to show a sex video in front of her and I've felt uncomfortable. Moving on then my mum could have my siblings taken off me, my girlfriend was meant to come with me as I was feeling bad, went to get her hair done and next thing went for a coffee and to his for dinner... said she didn't have time to make it back.
Fast forward and today I found out when she messages him, he always is like how are you doing baby xxx and every single message is fine my love 🥰❤️ and I mean literally every message they send. She said baby is a joke thing like babyyy like they would say in the 80s and my love is different than saying it to me as is the same as saying like love to someone like a friend or someone random, any advice? Or am I overacting this time? Hard to tell with the previous actions... I told her I feel uncomfortable and it started an argument
So had a few instances where my girlfriend has a gay friend and he's been inappropriate and talked about sexual things and impregnating her, later to find out she was going to be a surrogate... tried to show a sex video in front of her and I've felt uncomfortable. Moving on then my mum could have my siblings taken off me, my girlfriend was meant to come with me as I was feeling bad, went to get her hair done and next thing went for a coffee and to his for dinner... said she didn't have time to make it back.
Fast forward and today I found out when she messages him, he always is like how are you doing baby xxx and every single message is fine my love 🥰❤️ and I mean literally every message they send. She said baby is a joke thing like babyyy like they would say in the 80s and my love is different than saying it to me as is the same as saying like love to someone like a friend or someone random, any advice? Or am I overacting this time? Hard to tell with the previous actions... I told her I feel uncomfortable and it started an argument
