No not even if I went on a date with someone one time and they keep reaching out and I’m not feeling it. I’ll just be sorry this won’t work out. Ghosting is so cowardly.
It can be good and it can be hurtful, fact is that person didn't wanted to communicate and they're letting you go, not playing anymore games and just disappearing.
Ghosting is the coward’s way out. If someone is so afraid of having an awkward conversation then there is not much of anything they’re actually capable of doing.
The only appropriate time to ghost someone is if they are toxic, a danger, or unacceptable liability to you, but I would still tell them first because I have a big mouth
Depends, I usually ghost drama kings and queens, gossipers, insecure , jealous, and people who aren't doing nothing with their loves. They know their behavior is poor so I owe them no explanation
It should be done only in the following circumstances:
- the person is a viable threat to your physical (not emotional) well being - the person is a viable threat to your livelihood (they are a threat to your job/career) - the person flat out cheated on you - the person stole from you. - the person lied about something major (they are married, knowingly had a std, have kids but said they didn’t earlier)
All above are black and white issues. But most of the time people ghost for much lesser (emotional) reasons. That’s selfish and cowardly.
There are too many people who dont take no for an answer.
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It's bad. But it's not that bad. Once you've been ghosted many times you should be used to it. It still sucks, but it's just part of the impersonal world we live in.
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No not even if I went on a date with someone one time and they keep reaching out and I’m not feeling it. I’ll just be sorry this won’t work out. Ghosting is so cowardly.
It can be good and it can be hurtful, fact is that person didn't wanted to communicate and they're letting you go, not playing anymore games and just disappearing.
Ghosting = game.
Ghosting = no interest and communication, but it's not a game
Sorry, lm elaborate: bullshit game.
"They're no longer playing games. "
Yes they are. Theoetical grown adults are pulling this? How about they bother saying something to ACTUALLY END IT?
No. People should know why they have been rejected, especially if they never have been rude or aggressive.
ghosting means you have no courtesy, consideration or problem-solving skills
Nah its not. If u lost interest then tell them. They r have feeling too
It's a bad thing. Dark modesty is what I call it
Ghosting is the coward’s way out. If someone is so afraid of having an awkward conversation then there is not much of anything they’re actually capable of doing.
I don't really care. If you ghost me I know you're not worth it anyways.
Move on and don't cry about it 😂. Obviously someone who ghosts you doesn't deserve you anyways.
it depends… if it’s a creep then yes. if it’s a normal person then proper communication is better than ghosting.
The only appropriate time to ghost someone is if they are toxic, a danger, or unacceptable liability to you, but I would still tell them first because I have a big mouth
Terrble it tends to leave the other part pretty fucked up
Absolutely not a good thing. It shows an inability to communicate truthfully your intentions to another person.
Depends, I usually ghost drama kings and queens, gossipers, insecure , jealous, and people who aren't doing nothing with their loves. They know their behavior is poor so I owe them no explanation
I think ghosting is a bad thing. Why can't people be honest?
Strange question. Kinda implies that it can only be inherently bad or inherently good. That's just silly.
Rude. Weird. Only people who are messed up psychologically do it. So if you get ghosted you really dodged a bullet.
Not a good thing, but sometimes has to be done.
It should be done only in the following circumstances:
- the person is a viable threat to your physical (not emotional) well being
- the person is a viable threat to your livelihood (they are a threat to your job/career)
- the person flat out cheated on you
- the person stole from you.
- the person lied about something major (they are married, knowingly had a std, have kids but said they didn’t earlier)
All above are black and white issues. But most of the time people ghost for much lesser (emotional) reasons. That’s selfish and cowardly.
There are too many people who dont take no for an answer.
It's bad. But it's not that bad. Once you've been ghosted many times you should be used to it. It still sucks, but it's just part of the impersonal world we live in.