Guy I had sex with is still married, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy I was writing with for some months. Met him in June. A few weeks ago we met and danced and hooked up and then met once just talking and kissing, and then he ignored me and i found out he is probably still married. I found out because i looked at his “ex” profile and she still have married to and all of their couple’s pictures up on facebook and on ig her bio is emojis of a woman, man and a child (i know they have a child together). Also she still likes his post. He doesn’t have any pictures of her.

should i do nothing, it is not my business and i am never gonna hook up with him again or meet one on one? Probably still gonna see him around though as we come in the same circles.

or should i tell him.

tell her, or will that seem petty and vengeful especially if she doesn’t believe.

i don’t know.

[Tskfa]

As much as she has a right to know what the both of you have done if they are still married or in a committed relationship together it is not your responsibility to tell her and you may find she won’t be thankful you told her but direct her hurt and anger towards you. He may even blame you saying you pursued him. There is no point asking or confronting him to find out if they are still married or together even though you have a right to know the chances of him being truthful is slim especially if he is. As you both likely to see each other again you could tell him what you suspect to be the case of him being married and tell him that you will have no part of it and if he chooses to try and pursue you again you will have no choice to tell his wife. Ask yourself what is it that your hoping to achieve by telling his wife if it is to cause problems then you know what to do, if your motive is to clear your own coincidence think about the affect it will have, eventually the truth will come out

[Guardian45]

I would confront him that you know he's married and ask why did he play you? Demand answers, and then kick his ass to the curb!

Tell him if you find out that he's doing this to any other woman, then you'll tell his wife. He's a lying cheating bastard, who should NOT be allowed to get away with this, cuz he WILL do it again!

[Guardian45]

Thank you for MHG!

[hello123456789]

Honestly, I wouldn't talk to him anymore if I were you. He's playing games. I wouldn't want to step in that mess at all.

If you do wish to continue seeing him... again I dont recommend this... he needs to explain himself. There's no reason to act like this in life.

[Asker]

No don’t want to see him anymore, i can’t do that to his wife. I guess i am just petty, hate to let it go without him knowing i know and i feel sorry for his wife.

[SiberFox]

Don't have sex outside of a comitted relationship

[hafinjun]

Be happy,"most"married guys are safe (no std's)

[Luckycharms12]

Don't every see or talk to him again