How would you feel if your sexual partner is dating others while having sex with you? (Page 2)

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I just found out that my sexual partner (non romantic partner) is dating a girl. He was so excited to tell me that he scored a date with this girl. I feel that even though it's not a romantic/emotionally involved partner, it's still disrespectful for him to be dating someone else while having sex with me. We do talk, it's not just a hi, sex, and bye kind of interaction.  I had asked him to let me know if he's going to be seeing or dating someone, and I was expecting to be notified BEFORE any date or action of pursue has taken place.  He said he's not looking for long-term since he just got out of a long-term relationship, so I'm inferring this date is sexually based. A heterosexual guy doesn't just go on date with a girl for no reason if not for long-term, romantic relationship. It has to be sex then right? Therefore, I feel that I've been cheated, disrespected, and that I'm being used for sex, as a sexual stepping stone. It's like he could have sex with me while securing another partner, and when he's done with me, he could just dump me and have sex with her right away without having to wait. And no, I feel that a sexual relationship isn't "using" partners for sex if both people are exclusive and don't just have sex and leave without further interaction or communication. I feel that if he wants to "explore options" as he told me, our sexual relationship should end first before he starts exploring or even texting a girl about going on date. I feel that he should bare the blue balls for however long it'd take him to land another female sexual partner.  What do you think? Am I making sense or overreacting in my thoughts?

panamared1 · Answer

You can do the same

How would you feel if your sexual partner is dating others while having sex with you? (Page 2)

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