Which zone is the worst one to be kept on for too long?

[CelineBV]

Which zone do you think it's the worst one?

The friendzone; you'll always been seen as a platonic friend by that person or others. It'll never progress to dating. No romantic interest.

The fuck zone; it's usually where the girl develops an interest and feelings for someone that only sees her as someone to have fun with but will never ask her nor progress to something serious beyond just sex. No relationship interest.

The forever girlfriend zone; yeah she's in a relationship but he'll never propose nor have kids with her. She's hopelessly waiting for it but it'll never happen. He's just a girlfriend to enjoy for the meantime but he'll always have one foot out the door.

The forever friendzone

The continuous fuck zone

The forever girlfriend zone

Any zone.. anything that has no progress in life is bad

Updates

+1 y

Then off course the forever employee zone; where you're highly recogized at your job and you're a good candidate for a management position. Yet they make excuses and you'll never get promoted no matter what. Years into the same position.

[Vesuvius87]

The forever girlfriend zone for sure

Nothing hurts more than the man that calls you the love of his life, makes you believe you're perfect and talks about a future with you... but yet you're still in the dating stage for too long. It's one of the worst rejections in life. It's soul destroying. He breaks her heart into a million pieces.

No woman is ever going to understand the ''she's the love of my life, I'll one day have kids with her'' but you refused the most important thing in world for her. This means that you're a liar and nope, she's not the love of your life as you claimed. If you love her so much then you would give up your own freedom and needs for her happiness, sacrifice it all like a real man.

Now because of that horrible experience the woman learns to be more straight forward with the next man she dates. She now lays the cards and timeframe on what she wants... no more ''you're the love of my life but I still don't marry you'' BS.

[CelineBV]

Indeed. Those men are full of garbage. They're thinking of themselves and their own needs.

[BlueScorpio]

I chose D, any relationship that's not growing, remains stagnant, or just dragging you along for nothing is not in your benifet and just a waste of time.

[Twalli]

Some people don't like getting married

[BlueScorpio]

@Twalli I know that? I'm talking about people who want serious relationships. Relationship that aren't a fling and do lead to marriage.

[CelineBV]

Indeed. Most women in my circle of friends and family do want to get married. They want a boyfriend that will actually propose, not a guy that calls himself that boyfriend but never has intentions of marrying.

[BlueScorpio]

Exactly, it's like when men complain about being in the friendzone. They don't want to be stuck or stagnant as permanent friend, they want to progress as a romantic partner. It's the exact same thing as women not wanting to be forever girlfriends or flings. Everyone wants progress in their life in some way whether it be their relationships, careers, finances etc.

[Summeroflove]

Someone whose toxic that you can't get rid of. They are like a bad case of jock itch. No matter how much Lotrimin you put on them they just won't go away. Cutting toxic people out of your life is like playing wack a mole. No matter how many times you hit them they pop up somewhere else. They keep finding ways to contact you and get into your life which they feel they have a right to when they don't.

[Guy13]

If not Marriage zone then it is not one I wish or will remain in.

[CelineBV]

Make sure to let the woman on time you never want marriage. Certain guys actually say they do want that just to get a girlfriend and keep her in the forever girlfriend zone, which is manipulative.

[Guy13]

You misread my response. I am not going to SO, Live together, or F-around. A Conservative marriage pop out babies type please...

[CelineBV]

Oh ok. Then you're find girls that are into traditional values.

[Guy13]

Yep, it would be nice.

[Avicenna]

The friendzone has got to be the most frustrating of the bunch, especially for guys

[emily2009]

You think that's bad try thinking somebody actually cares about you and wants to be your friend and it turns out they're only interested in you for your body

[bamesjond0069]

The friend zone is the least bad because why you going to be friends with someone who doesn't want to date you? You're supposed to move on. y'all men bring it on yourself.

[zeitgeist057]

Honestly all those zones sound completely fine to me.

Friendzone: I don't want to be more than friends with someone who doesn't want to be more than friends with me. Sure, I've had a crush on a friend before, we all have. But I only want romance from someone who is thinking about me in a romantic way.

Fuckzone: This also sounds fine. I enjoy sex, and if someone I enjoy having sex with enjoys having sex with me, that's pretty great. I don't mind not progressing "to something serious" (though I would argue that having a sexual relationship is pretty serious, I don't know if it's a good idea to have regular sex with someone who is frivolous about it.).

Forevergirl (or boy) friend zone: See note above on friend zone. If someone doesn't want to propose to me, the worst thing they could do is propose. If you want something the other person doesn't, you should look for someone else to give you that thing. If it's kids or a marriage or whatever. But I think at that point you're not caring about the person and what they want, you're just wanting a marriage or kids so it's probably best for *them* to not be in a relationship with you. But I have no problem being a forever boyfriend, that actually sounds nice.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pmsX49-wEW8

[SarahS98]

I'm wondering how can anyone keep you where you don't want to be at? Are they holding you hostage or something? If things aren't progressing, you're unhappy but you're still staying in that zone instead of walking away, you got no one to blame but yourself. No one put a gun to your head and forced you to stay.

The person is at least being honest that they like how things are and you either take it or leave it. If you continue taking it and waiting for some mirable to happen then honestly I have no pity for you.

As someone just said, you don't like the zone then changed to another station. Don't be afraid to walk away and continue changing stations until you get to your desired destination.

[Rosexøxø]

Oh I thought that lady in the picture was an old lady with a cane.

Yeah, I don’t want to be kept in the elderly ho- I mean zone.

lmao

Jokes aside, I’d say any zone that has no meaning, or loses value, and objectifies a person, or decreases their respect/ love/ enjoy ability in life.

[Rosexøxø]

Voted D 🗳

[lilyanony1]

When you're in the friend zone you know that you are friends and you can decide to have that person in your life that way or you can move on. When someone sleeps with you and makes excuses as to why it's not developing its demoralising and they wear you down. This can ce accepting less than you deserve or feeling like you are unable to find something better.
I don't recommend any but I feel like the last two are worse

[emily2009]

If the fuckzone is the other side of the friend zone, then that. When a guy doesn't just ask you out, he acts all friendly and lets you think you've actually made a new friend who cares about you as a friend without ever telling you he wants more. Then if another guy asks you out he gets all jealous bc it turns out he was only ever acting like your friend bc he wanted to date you but was too much of a pussy to ask.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The forever girlfriend zone is called marriage, whether its formalized/legalized or not, and has nothing to do with having kids.

I'd be happy with a forever girlfriend (aka a wife) and no kids, and if she is sterile, all the better (granted I would officially marry her, but even if weren't official, I'd see it as being official anyway).

As for whats worse, the forever fuck zone, thats a living hell in my opinion.

[Vesuvius87]

Be honest and upfront with a date that you just want a girlfriend and no kids. Make sure the woman is on your same page. It doesn't work out when people are at different pages and want different things.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Vesuvius87 I completely agree, and I'm always honest, upfront and very descriptive about what I want.

[alexses]

The worst is the friendzone!
It completely prevents:

• The possibility to express him/herself with the other person and get together a deeper knowledge.
• Pleasures, emotions and fun, among the best ever that two people can produce and get together.
• The possibility of evolving a relationship.
• Better understand the value of the other person, without limiting the relationship too much.

[inhua]

assuming these answers are suppose to be for the perspective of a woman

the fuck zone would be the worst. it's a zone where no one respects you and you don't value yourself.

[petitedollbabee]

The heartbreak zone. I find that personally harder than the other zones listed. Where you’ve just had your heart broken, relationship ended, you’ve given up on love and feel all doom and gloom.

[Chazmatazz269]

Nobody can “keep” you where you don’t want to be. Each of your “zones” are equally fair. Life is simple. Don’t like your station? Change it!

[SarahS98]

This exactly. How can someone complain about being stuck on a zone? The other person already got to their destination. If someone isn't happy with it, then they are free to walk away whenever they want to.

[es20490446e]

Anything that not fits, I quickly cut it off.

[Anonymous]

All of those problems are 100% the fault of the person who finds themselves in the zone. So I'd just stay, you're not a victim--you're a volunteer!

[Guardian45]

I've been friendzoned SO MANY times, that if I hear one more time, "You're a GREAT person, but...", I'm going to vomit!🤢🤮

[Anonymous]

Great, that is all we need, more zones that people can blame for their troubles.

[art84]

Friend zone as you are basically stuck as friends nothing more.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Definitely D. Being stuck in a bad situation is traumatic and very depressing without hope.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Definitely B I lose all respect for women who just see me as a dick dragging around a body

[Anonymous]

On the bottom in a 69, you gotta breathe sometime:

[bubblegunnn]

Any zone.. can't upgrade my life

[exitseven]

How about theTwilight Zone?

[humanearth]

Friend zone is a blueball maker

[TroyDT2]

Every zone is voluntary.

[BJP21]

A or D, it needs to go somewhere.

[legalboxers]

Friendzone.. been here forever

[peedy]

Never getting stuck in any of them sucks to

[msc545]

The forever friendzone of course.

[Jltakk]

Friendzone easily over the others.

[Anonymous]

The warzone damn it 😠

[Anonymous]

There's no such thing as the friend zone.

[MCheetah]

Option A or D.

[Anonymous]

Friendzone is the worst of those.

[Anonymous]

I think we're a bit to old to be using these terms

[Anonymous]

Can't make a separation between the two

[Wise4myage]

Definitely A.