If you are dating to find a long-term, exclusive partner, how soon do you ask yourself. . . "Is this The One"? (Page 2)

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At some point in dating, a person who is dating to find a long term partner will ask themselves, "Is this person The One? Have I finally found her (or him?)" But most people also are not consciously doing this on a first date. If we spot an obvious deal breaker, of course (like she's an alcoholic or he has an anger problem,) we don't ignore it and we end it as soon as we become aware of the problem. But, on a first or second date, I've never asked myself, "Could this be my future wife?" Of coure, it doesn't happen at the very same time in every reationship, so answering that "it depends on the relationship" won't be very helpful. In general, when have you started asking yourself this question?

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably within the first month

Songomatic · Answer

An itch in my groin area

Anonymous · Answer

i don't believe in that anymore. there's no such thing

Fireguy17 · Answer

It varies. You know when it is time.

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