Who’s wrong his girlfriend or I?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I have a 11 year old son and I’ve been co parenting with his dad for many years also with his new girlfriend for 1

(they been together longer than 1 year)

So it was my day to pick him up from school but I was called into work until 2am and found out I will be working the next day so I text my sons father to pick him up. And I did so at 2am and I thought it was important to text immediately. And he didn’t respond. Ok I text him again in the am about it and he responded so text me.

don’t ever text me at 2am you have no respect for me and my girlfriend how dare you

idc what you say don’t disrespect our boundaries no excuses never text at that hour

And it being important for me son I didn’t understand this and told him it wasn’t personal it was about our child and important and the hour wasn’t a factor to me

This is the second time this girl gave me problems about boundaries

first was Because I was standing too close to my sons father ( we were not close enough to touch bodies by the way) I also was taking to her and facing her but standing next to him

i who’s wrong her or I?

[Guy13]

Those two have priorities wrong. You can't do anything about it so stop worrying about immature and negative people. Rarely do things ever "go right" with children.

[dustybiker]

You could have texted early the next morning. It wasn’t an emergency.

[arandomgirlbruh]

are you sure the girlfriend texted that message?

[Asker]

Ohhh like did his girlfriend text it from him phone? Maybe she did

[arandomgirlbruh]

its rude for them to say that. Your kid is more important than anything

[Asker]

Omg thank you. That’s how I was feeling.

[arandomgirlbruh]

why do you share custody with him by the way? I think you could do a better job as a single mom

[Asker]

And I have a feeling like this treatment is just for me because that same day. Her friend who is a girl was standing next to him same way I was.

My sons dad didn’t say a word she said all the why are you standing so close to him blah blah blah

[arandomgirlbruh]

she is just a jealous b haha

[Asker]

He said this.

This was not about disrespect
I just asked you to text/call at desert times
She had every right to ask you to move
You didn’t need to be standing right next to me anyways
You bring it up like if she was wrong
She wasn’t
I wouldn’t want her ex being that close to her either no matter how much him and I get along

[Asker]

And to that I responded

Never ever said she didn’t have rights to feel how she feels. All I said was communicate your boundaries in a respectful way. And I will respect it.