I gave you a like because it is honest and legit in that way, but like that's the worse answer!!! But I have been guilty of it as well, once or twice... lol
I would definitely wait. If I'm looking for a serious relationship. It sucks, but needs to be done. I want to make sure In in to her mentally. Then bring on the sex.
Sometimes it may be worth it to wait. She may be underage, or she just may be worth the wait till she is sure you're the one. to give her sex to
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6 weeks is okay but a dozen date is too much, two dates in a week. If you are dating once a week and by a dozen, they don't think of you anything sexually then they don't want you, unless they are virgins.
I think you are right, when you meet someone, you know on some level if she could be the one, or just for fun. But regardless of if she is the one or just for fun, does having sex too early make a difference?
I certainly might, but I wouldn't be exclusive with her until we were having sex. I need to know that she's interested in me sexually. It would certainly be fine not to have full sex for awhile, but we'd need to be doing other sexual things.
Nothing wrong with that, 90% of my relationships at 2 to 3 max... but to me I wasn't really and truly into any women that I felt that way about. But that does not mean we did not go on a keep dating if the sex was great... but after 6 to 8 months they all burnt out, and sex was not enough... but they were a shit ton of fun while they lasted!
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I would wait. And until then I will not refrain from getting sex elsewhere. Blame it on my high libido.
I gave you a like because it is honest and legit in that way, but like that's the worse answer!!! But I have been guilty of it as well, once or twice... lol
Point is women can find someone to have sex with tonight. We don't have that luxury unless we are rich.
“I think most men, or a majority of people would not wait... they live by the 3rd to 5th date rule.”
And this is why I hate society. Modern dating and hookup culture is the downfall of humanity.
I would definitely wait. If I'm looking for a serious relationship. It sucks, but needs to be done. I want to make sure In in to her mentally. Then bring on the sex.
Yea only if i would be nuts... i hardly wait by 2nd date lol
I might, depends on her on when she is comfortable but I think after 2 months it’s not going to happen and it’s just a friend
Sometimes it may be worth it to wait. She may be underage, or she just may be worth the wait till she is sure you're the one. to give her sex to
6 weeks is okay but a dozen date is too much, two dates in a week. If you are dating once a week and by a dozen, they don't think of you anything sexually then they don't want you, unless they are virgins.
I dont have time to wait on "love".
You're 18 to 24, what type of time are you short on?
Compared to over a decade without sex 6 weeks is nothing.
No. I would not wait anywhere near that long.
I'd say 2 months is a good wait..
I agree, if you really think that they are worth it, then you invest the time.
I wouldn't even go on "a dozen dates" with someone unless I was in a relationship with them lmao
Not some rando
3 at the most. If she really likes you then 3 dates should be enough before rocking her world.
It depends on who and why, I think?
I think you are right, when you meet someone, you know on some level if she could be the one, or just for fun. But regardless of if she is the one or just for fun, does having sex too early make a difference?
Not really, necessarily... I have smelt with someone the first night and spent years with them!! 🤷🏻♀️
Slept 😂
That has never happened for me, 1st date sex never last more than a month at most for me.
2nd date sex, 8 months top.
6 month sex, 22 year marriage and horrific divorce! 😆
I certainly might, but I wouldn't be exclusive with her until we were having sex. I need to know that she's interested in me sexually. It would certainly be fine not to have full sex for awhile, but we'd need to be doing other sexual things.
Yea I will wait as my goals are long term
Sometimes you just know that is the best course.
2, maybe 3 dates is my limit.
Nothing wrong with that, 90% of my relationships at 2 to 3 max... but to me I wasn't really and truly into any women that I felt that way about. But that does not mean we did not go on a keep dating if the sex was great... but after 6 to 8 months they all burnt out, and sex was not enough... but they were a shit ton of fun while they lasted!
We waited three years
I kinda wouldn't lol
I wait up to 2 years