I used to be very cautious about who I let get to know me. Now I'm much more open. I pretty much leave it to the other person to decide. If you are willing to open up, so am I.
For me right from the start why would you not show who you are to someone at the start,, and go from there.. just be you always someone will love you for it.
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when I was like your age I opened up way too fast and if I talked to a girl, in less than a day she knew everything about me and my personality
big mistake, now I rarely open up to girls
I used to be very cautious about who I let get to know me. Now I'm much more open. I pretty much leave it to the other person to decide. If you are willing to open up, so am I.
Not long for me at all. I get why some people are so slow to do it though
It depends on the person
Sometimes a week sometimes a few months
I try to open up once I know it was getting serious, ND seeing if we have the same look on life, and the same goals
Little to no time at all. I’m an open book minus a few things
For me it takes awhile because I keep my guard up in case they ghost me.
I'm always the real me. It's harder to get a girl but makes her less likely to leave. She knows what she's getting
I learned to never open up to people, they just end up using anything against you and they always do.
For me right from the start why would you not show who you are to someone at the start,, and go from there.. just be you always someone will love you for it.
lol i dont even open up to my own family so well
I'm always the real me... There's just a lot of the real me to figure out.
If i see them opening up to me, then i would do the same, otherwise, i will not.
Well it takes sometimes less then five minutes to open up…. my legs
Never. But she won't know it. Because I'm pretty good at deducting what others want to hear. 🙂
Takes me a long time. I have major trust issues
Depends on the vibes they give off to me
Women don't really want men to ever truly open up, so never with women.
Depends on the person but usually about 6 months.
Probably like a year at least.