So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months and for the first month we spent so much time together, it was amazing. It's like we understood eachother. He told me he was in love with me and that I was his soulmate and his best friend. Then he had a training to go to that was a month long, and we I thought we fell even more in love with eachother. But when he came back I thought everything was fine, but after a few days he got really weird, and told me he needed space. And so I gave it to him. He's come around a bit but no longer tells me he's in love with me. Or that I'm his best friend. I feel like he only wants to spend time with me when it's good for him. And I'm afriad to ask my boyfriend if he wants to hang out when I want to see him, because I'm pretty sure he will say no. What should I do?
Should I walk away?
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It's understandable that you feel confused and uncertain about the state of your relationship. It's important to remember that relationships can be complex and that people's feelings and actions can change over time.
If you feel like your boyfriend is not making an effort to spend time with you or communicate with you in a way that feels meaningful and respectful, it may be worth having a conversation with him about your concerns. Try to approach the conversation in a calm and non-judgmental way, and express your feelings and needs in a clear and respectful manner.
At the same time, it's also important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to be honest with yourself about whether this relationship is meeting your needs and making you happy. If you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells or if you're not getting the emotional support and connection that you need, it may be worth considering whether this relationship is right for you.
Ultimately, the decision to walk away from a relationship is a personal one that only you can make. It's important to trust your instincts and to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. If you decide to stay in the relationship, make sure to communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and to work together to build a healthy and respectful relationship.
If you don't walk away physically at least step back emotionally. I don't think anyone who is the more interested party in a relationship has ever succeeded in a relationship can will the other person. In fact, drifting away might make him respond. However he responds don't try to think of ways to make him like you. You'll find out inevitably. It may be painful but it's the only course of action in which you can determine his true feelings and maintain your self-respect. Good luck
Moved too fast. You need to communicate or move on