@Nikki1989 Women overwhelming I itiat break ups. The average guy has a scarcity mindset and stays because he doesn't think he can find anyone else. Women typically have an abundance mindset and always believe there's someone better out there.
Men usually reject women before there is a relationship not after. So if you make it into a relationship we have a tendency to not break it of unless she massively change behavior. So more like 85/15.
Women do it more because men just don't want to divorce lol They will be having a 3 year affair and want to stay in the relationship so he don't have to loose anything.
I have been the initiator almost all of the time in mine, but I know a lot of guys are fine in a crappy relationship as long as they are getting sex so it is probably mostly women who end most relationships overall.
@Villane11e Because most guys have been brainwashed into worshiping sex. I mean, it's great and all, but so is watching a sunset or catching a great wave or a million other things.
I mean is it really the only reason to stay in a relationship all women have the same bits, like at the very least go with one that actually wants you to be happy and thrive in life.
@Villane11e A mix of sexual attraction, comfort with the woman and knowing that you’re unlikely to find a woman like her. Especially in the short-term. Also perceptions that thing such as divorce will ruin you and the thought that a man without a girlfriend is worth less then one with, definitely a society influenced view-point. It all depends really, the majority of males are deeply rooted in stoicism thinking since being a kid so we’re much more likely to put up with some shit though there are still certain line we don’t want crossed like cheating, telling us lies such as “i’m pregnant” while that’s not the case and more. I’ve had some of girlfriends who were mean time to time, sometimes close to being vocally abusive and i did put up with it and simply brushed it off as their time of the month. Definitely wasn’t the case, but was much better to see it that way and then realising they’re toxic and that i attracted the wrong type of woman and didn’t even notice much as i fell so hard.
Oh i mett plenty men that just "nope, I'm out of here" but it's more often women that beak it off yes. Let's say I had 10 relationship in my life. I have broken up with 3 of them.
Yeaaa cuz he pussed out and couldn’t go through with it. Men loathe the idea of another man having their way with their woman so they tend to avoid breaking up
The numbers are more like 20% Men - 80% women on who breaks up the relationship, but when Men break it off that's it end of story, no emotional backlash from them, they carry on with life.
It’s worse. It’s 100% of the time. In my experience, which is extensive, the times a woman has broken up with me instead of me breaking up with me is 100%.
Most women try to gaslight men when they leave because we like to take advantage of the fact that everybody gives her sympathy even though she is the fault
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@Nikki1989 Women overwhelming I itiat break ups. The average guy has a scarcity mindset and stays because he doesn't think he can find anyone else. Women typically have an abundance mindset and always believe there's someone better out there.
Men usually reject women before there is a relationship not after. So if you make it into a relationship we have a tendency to not break it of unless she massively change behavior. So more like 85/15.
Women do it more because men just don't want to divorce lol
They will be having a 3 year affair and want to stay in the relationship so he don't have to loose anything.
i heard that but in rl i know men that broke it off as well, when it comes to women that break up with men its usually cause he cheated/was abusive
Men break it off regularly , you don't have an appropriate answer to select , often.
Have done it myself on numerous occasions over the years.
I have been the initiator almost all of the time in mine, but I know a lot of guys are fine in a crappy relationship as long as they are getting sex so it is probably mostly women who end most relationships overall.
Why is it that sex is such a powerful factor?
@Villane11e Because it feels good.
@Villane11e Because most guys have been brainwashed into worshiping sex. I mean, it's great and all, but so is watching a sunset or catching a great wave or a million other things.
I mean is it really the only reason to stay in a relationship all women have the same bits, like at the very least go with one that actually wants you to be happy and thrive in life.
@Villane11e A mix of sexual attraction, comfort with the woman and knowing that you’re unlikely to find a woman like her. Especially in the short-term. Also perceptions that thing such as divorce will ruin you and the thought that a man without a girlfriend is worth less then one with, definitely a society influenced view-point. It all depends really, the majority of males are deeply rooted in stoicism thinking since being a kid so we’re much more likely to put up with some shit though there are still certain line we don’t want crossed like cheating, telling us lies such as “i’m pregnant” while that’s not the case and more. I’ve had some of girlfriends who were mean time to time, sometimes close to being vocally abusive and i did put up with it and simply brushed it off as their time of the month. Definitely wasn’t the case, but was much better to see it that way and then realising they’re toxic and that i attracted the wrong type of woman and didn’t even notice much as i fell so hard.
Oh I've broken it off a few times. I hate to do it because it involves crying and sometimes yelling on the receiving end.
Mostly women. Men most likely keep options open & try to jerk you around. They play with everyone
Oh i mett plenty men that just "nope, I'm out of here" but it's more often women that beak it off yes. Let's say I had 10 relationship in my life. I have broken up with 3 of them.
My boyfriend broke it off with me but now we're back together.
So you prove my point
It was his decision to break up with me and to get back together. I had no say so in the matter.
Yeaaa cuz he pussed out and couldn’t go through with it. Men loathe the idea of another man having their way with their woman so they tend to avoid breaking up
I wouldn't say that he pussed out as you put it. He realized he was still in love with me and couldn't be without me.
The numbers are more like 20% Men - 80% women on who breaks up the relationship, but when Men break it off that's it end of story, no emotional backlash from them, they carry on with life.
I believe that men can end a relationship but in general it's the woman who ends it for a reason or another, mostly blaming you for ending it 😂
It’s worse. It’s 100% of the time. In my experience, which is extensive, the times a woman has broken up with me instead of me breaking up with me is 100%.
i also been broke up with some men did the breakup and other time i was the one that did broke up with some men.
Men do it too but mostly lack the balls to go for it so the woman has to do the dirty work.
Yes women do it but I can also say mostly women are too pussy to go for it so the man has to do the dirty work
@Aiko_E_Lara seems like I dated women then, coz I've always done the dirty work.
In unmarried couples, men definitely break it off sometimes, probably half the time. But in marriages it's women who file for divorce 80% of the time.
Most Men try to gaslight you into leaving yourself
Most women try to gaslight men when they leave because we like to take advantage of the fact that everybody gives her sympathy even though she is the fault
Because *they
@Aiko_E_Lara I have no issue admitting my wrongs but I will mention his as well
So do i and most men
In marriage it's always benifits to let a woman taka a move because you don't have to pay anything if she wants to get divorce..
It's a smart financial move.
Smxs, I've been "dumped". Smxs, I've broken it off.
I know People lie, ubout the dumper, huh?
Maybe not 99% but it's close to 90-95% of the time. The rest of the time its an effeminate male who breaks it off.
Or, the man never actually formed a relationship because he was just having fun.