There's a man who works with me (secretary) that has been a widower for two years now. His wife passed away from cancer and he has three children - but problem is, he has not remarried or found another partner yet.
I'd tend to leave it alone, but my wife is not too approving of this situation because in her opinion the children need a mother - "the father is optional, the mother is necessary". I kind of agree with her disapproval, but again I think we should not force the issue while she keeps trying to match him up with one of her friends. There's a woman - ten years his junior - who's interested in him and has already built something of a rapport with the children (she's an elementary teacher) but for now the secretary seems to just want to be friends. Hopefully things will evolve in a favorable way.