What does being "too nice" mean for you?

[DenizLikesTennis]

Assuming you are a naturally good person but a few girls would notice that trait as something to be excluded, turned-off.

Is that a bad thing in relationships and dating? If so, what can that person do without to pretend someone he isn't.

For me personally, If I was being called "too nice", I'd find it rude, insulting and impolite. Because that's how people function. (In that way). It's like saying to her: "Why are you so extroverted and loud?"

[DaisyM23]

for me, too nice means being a pushover - if someone called me too nice i'd take it as a compliment though because i've got a kind of tough exterior and whilst i am nice, it's probably not one of my most known qualities lol - so it honestly just depends, it could just mean you like to help people in need or it could mean you can't say no or have boundaries

[LavLavLuv]

• When you let them walk on you for so many times
• When you're a people pleaser

[Rockstarrrrr]

I think too nice means you never say no.. And you never ask or demand anything... People's pleasure is always before your pleasure... And you never criticize anything or anyone because you avoid any sort of conflict...

[Jltakk]

I mask automatically and come off as very friendly with something... off if one squints long enough. This would garner me many close friends but no romantic relationships.

[Yannishka]

When I can abuse the fuck out of your niceness, you got an issue.

[Billlewis]

Please do 8><3

[Shamalien]

You’re the one with issues. Abusing someone’s kindness is wack

[Billlewis]

@Shamalien I know I'm a mess, but this is what makes me happy, so I pursue women who are mean, cruel, vicious and sadistic.

[Yannishka]

@Shamalien You failed to understand what I said here.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Yannishka Damn, that's a cunty attitude.

[Yannishka]

It sure is! But there are people who'll do that with no remorse! And if you're too nice around such people, they will destroy you if you let them.

[Shamalien]

It’s a fair point, other side of that coin though is that the abuser has far deeper issues than the kind person. Kind people should be cherished.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Yannishka. Yes "those people" are called "females".

[Yannishka]

@KrakenAttackin If you're a sexist that is.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Yannishka OMG, I'm a sexist? Whoa be me! What shall I do? And you are bisexual 😂😂😂😂

[Yannishka]

@KrakenAttackin Nothing, have a nice day though!

[Crankor]

It's a people pleaser. There's many downsides to that

[Anonymous]

Allowing yourself to be walked on like a used carpet.

[KrakenAttackin]

Being a SIMP.

[Billlewis]

I'm guilty of being a simp and a tiny dicked celibate wimp.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Billlewis So evolve.

[Billlewis]

I actually prefer being a submissive beta male.