By talking about it and agreeing on whether you're in a committed relationshop or not. How is that not obvious? You can't seriously think this is something you can just guess or interpret or assume, do you?
What does calling you "baba" have anything to do with it? And what the hell kinda weird-ass question is "Can I love you?"? Is he an alien who's just landed on Earth, trying to learn how to be human?
And still, the weirded thing here is that you think you can just "read" a committed relationship into these things. You know how to know 100% for sure you're NOT in a relationship with someone? It's when you have to ask yourself or others whether you're in a relationship or not. And also when you've never talked to him about your status. If you can't openly communicate with each other about this (or any) stuff, you have no business being in a grown up relationship anyway. Otherwise it's just pubescent teenie nonsense. And you're not a teen anymore.
You aren't in a committed relationship until you explicitly have a conversation where you define the relationship as exclusive and committed.
Maybe ask him instead of us? Nothing about what's he's said objectively means you're in a committed relationship though he may very well be thinking in that direction. Go talk to him, just know that he may not be on the same page as you or want the same thing.
There should be a mutual agreeance on this relationship , so if you are too afraid to speak up in regards to this then you aren’t in a relationship
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u You should be asking him, not us.
I believe if it’s called a relationship, you must be committed.
Other than that I don’t believe in relationship that is not committed. How can a relationship not be committed?
Why do you even have this question? I feel sad for that.
I believe we are free to flirt around until the date clearly communicates his exclusive interest to each other and makes effort to make you feel he wants to be the one in your life.
Has he done it?
If you have to ask then you probably aren't. If you can't see where their attention is focused and have doubts, there is your answer. I can be committed for awhile and give a girl all my attention but i like to enjoy that time of being enjoying each other's company without having to put it in writing what we are to make them happy. It kills the spark and often I will see it as insecurity and lose interest. Besides, most people will only tell you what they want you to hear and never commit to only you. But that's just me so do what you feel is right.
I would say you´re not in a committed relationship as long as he´s not doing something that creates a bond between the two of you. I understand a committed relationship as something that costs both partners something.
Just saying "I love you" or calling you babe doesn´t cost him anything as long as he doesn´t say it in public.
In a committed relationship, both individuals are mutually dedicated to each other's well-being and happiness, prioritize open and honest communication, and demonstrate long-term intentions for the relationship's growth and longevity.
Nope. Nothing else short of having an actual conversation about it means that. Don't spend an hour trying to read into something when you can just get the truth in ten minutes.
just ask him does this mean we are exclusive?
Mutual trust and love. Common interests you both enjoy.
That's a conversation you need to have with him otherwise you will never have the clarity.
I would not assume so. A guy could be hitting a half dozen girls and tell them all "I love you."
You need to ask him directly
Or how about you ask him yourself
Why did you choose MHO so quickly?
when your having sex 3 times a day
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