No, not at all. You have no reason to accept the unacceptable.
I'd do the same thing I believe. Your daughter is a moron and she'll pay for it. She has more misery headed her way by keeping this cancer in her life.
He wouldn’t leave when I told him he isn’t welcomed , so I said if you don’t walk back to your car and get off my property I will have the cops escort you off my property instead or you will be buried on my backyard
I told my daughter I love her so much and I can’t tell her who to date , so she can date him all she wants, but you need to respect my rules in my home , I said she is always welcomed but he isn’t period
It’s your place and you’re allowed to tell people they can’t come around your own home. Your daughter will probably see him off the property though and will just have to learn the hard way.
Yea I told her just because you accepted him back into your life doesn’t mean I have to as well, I said you are 22 years old , if you want to be with a guy like that then go get your own place with him , cuz I no longer want him around me , what he did to you is so wrong and disrespectful and why you took him back is beyond me , so sorry I don’t approve of it , I said your Mom cheated on me , do you see your Mom still in my home? I thought my daughter would of learned from what her Mom did to me. But just goes to show kids think they know it all and have no respect what so ever.
How old is she? She is not 18 yet, right? Aslong she lives under your roof and she is not 18 she does what you say. Because it is your job to take care of her. Easy.
You are wrong - if she is oldwenough to date she is old enough to handle her own relationship problems, and you need to let her do this on her own. It's part of growing up.
I told her she can do whatever she wants she is an adult but doesn’t mean I have to approve of her decision, I told her I will always be here for her and when shit hits the fan again , I will be here for her
She just tells me everything is fine that she can handle her relationship, I said ok that’s cool , I wish the best for you , but this is my home and my rules if you don’t like it then go get your own place
It’s so crazy to me , you would of thought she would of learned from what her Mom did to me , but people make their own dumb choices in life and I guess they have to learn the hard way
Have to balance your relationship with your daughter to who you want in your home. I guess it depends on how bad he is and how good your relationship is with her.
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Do you and her have a bad relationship? How was your relationship growing up? Did you guys fight a lot?
Eh kind of like he wanted him to take care of me and my son financially. To do that we had to marry tho just because my husband makes soo much more money being married then single
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No you are not wrong but right in many ways
No, not at all. You have no reason to accept the unacceptable.
I'd do the same thing I believe. Your daughter is a moron and she'll pay for it. She has more misery headed her way by keeping this cancer in her life.
You should have a little more empathy as her dad, she’s not dumb. She’s just young and she doesn’t know any better
She is 22 and I love her to death , I told her she can stay with him if she wants but he isn’t welcomed in my home period
Lmao i dont think you shouldve threatened to call the cops but yea he wouldn't be allowed over for a while
He wouldn’t leave when I told him he isn’t welcomed , so I said if you don’t walk back to your car and get off my property I will have the cops escort you off my property instead or you will be buried on my backyard
Lmao
I told my daughter I love her so much and I can’t tell her who to date , so she can date him all she wants, but you need to respect my rules in my home , I said she is always welcomed but he isn’t period
Love it
You are just trying to protect your daughter. I don't see anything wrong with that.
It’s your place and you’re allowed to tell people they can’t come around your own home. Your daughter will probably see him off the property though and will just have to learn the hard way.
Yea I told her just because you accepted him back into your life doesn’t mean I have to as well, I said you are 22 years old , if you want to be with a guy like that then go get your own place with him , cuz I no longer want him around me , what he did to you is so wrong and disrespectful and why you took him back is beyond me , so sorry I don’t approve of it , I said your Mom cheated on me , do you see your Mom still in my home? I thought my daughter would of learned from what her Mom did to me. But just goes to show kids think they know it all and have no respect what so ever.
How old is she? She is not 18 yet, right? Aslong she lives under your roof and she is not 18 she does what you say. Because it is your job to take care of her. Easy.
In short, i would have done the same.
She is 22 , so I told her I can’t choose who she dates but I can choose to let him in my home
You're right, he is a "douche bag" and he will continue being such with your daughter or the next and the next after them.
You are wrong - if she is oldwenough to date she is old enough to handle her own relationship problems, and you need to let her do this on her own. It's part of growing up.
I told her she can do whatever she wants she is an adult but doesn’t mean I have to approve of her decision, I told her I will always be here for her and when shit hits the fan again , I will be here for her
She may not want you to be there for her. Have you tried asking what she wants?
She just tells me everything is fine that she can handle her relationship, I said ok that’s cool , I wish the best for you , but this is my home and my rules if you don’t like it then go get your own place
You don't have to let the guy in your house. Other than that you probably should stay out of this.
it's amazing to what lengths society would go to defend degenerate culture
You're right. I can't believe she took a cheater back!
It’s so crazy to me , you would of thought she would of learned from what her Mom did to me , but people make their own dumb choices in life and I guess they have to learn the hard way
NO. You stick to your guns. It is not possible to apologize for some things and this is one of them.
absolutely not you are just beinh a father to your daughter
She needs to stop having shit standards, and just cut off all communication with him.
Cheaters are scum, you did the right thing.
Have to balance your relationship with your daughter to who you want in your home. I guess it depends on how bad he is and how good your relationship is with her.
Do you and her have a bad relationship? How was your relationship growing up? Did you guys fight a lot?
Not at all.
Your house your rules.
If she doesn't like it she can move out.
You're right, dude. Don't let that shit bag kid in your house anymore. "I'm sorry" doesn't cut the mustard.
You are a hypocrite.
“ I am not afraid to admit it, I have cheated, I am not proud of it.”
^ This ring any bells?
Yes it does but the difference is I ended it with the girl , I didn’t try to keep her by my side
He cheated. Fuck him. Lucky he doesn’t get a firm hit to the jaw
Hit in the jaw would be weak. If this was my dad he would have the shotgun out and waiting for this cheater boy to show up at the door
@Apple1996 no wonder you got married so young :P
Haha didn't get married young cuz of my dad. He wanted me to stay single forever
@Apple1996 but if somebody impregnated u I’m bettn he wouldn’t stand for that fucker gettin away unmarried lol
Eh kind of like he wanted him to take care of me and my son financially. To do that we had to marry tho just because my husband makes soo much more money being married then single