Why does this guy coworker mostly all the time watches every movement of mine?

[Anonymous]

He is in committed relationship as well! I mean he used to stare at me a lot before but now he tries to hide it a little more but like I’ve caught him twice yesterday staring at me first time was behind items that he prob thought I wouldn’t see him but I still did and he was just standing there for like a min literally staring at me and I felt the stare too and than later after lunch he was talking but had eyes on me and I literally felt his glance I had to look away why is he being like that? or am I just imagining things

[Curmudgeon]

Well, you just might be a hottie, appearance wise. But he is wise enough not to say anything, let alone act on his thoughts, because at work that is just trouble.

[Asker]

Am I imagining things

[Curmudgeon]

Maybe, but I would not worry about it.

[Asker]

Why not lo l

[Asker]

You think his messing or being serious

[Curmudgeon]

Neither. He is simply noticing. Men are visual, period. If he says nothing, let alone makes a movement, then it eally IS nothing.

[Curmudgeon]

Really, ugh typos

[Asker]

He just needs to stop staring period

[Curmudgeon]

In time he will. The novelty of anything wears off over time. But the point is, such flirtatious moves at a serious occupation are dangerous, so don't do them, either of you.