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While unmarried, would you feel more comfortable living with your current/future significant other or having your own place? Why? (Page 2)
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I would definitely move in together before getting married, to see what it is like. You want to make sure you’re compatible living together
Thats why i said engaged
Missed that
I love living together with my girlfriend, currently live together with peace and harmony along with her mom.
Oh gosh the mom is in the mix too
DizzyDesii
Yes as a family and mom and daughter are just like sibling, as well same nature and hobbies too.
Don't think marriage is in the cards for me, and I prefer having a place to myself where I can just focus on myself and have some time with me.
So, I chose option D.
Understandable. But is it not in the cards because you dont want it? Or because you dont think you’ll get it/deserve it?
It's the second one.
Well i think you will and do. Time will tell
I appreciate the vote of confidence but you know me and the kind of things I am into, it's good with women for some time but in the long run it doesn't work.
Hmm don't know I guess it'd just depend on what kind of person they were and where we were at in the relationship.
"AND we can sneak over to eachothers rooms whenever we’re feeling some type of way."
That's the same thing as shacking up.
Not to me. Thats called a sleepover
What the hell's the difference?
Spending the night on occasion is not shacking up which isa longterm thing. Its not shacking up to be roommates with multiple people in an apartment
You don't really know someone until you have lived with them.
Mmm I don't know
If you love someone, wouldn't you want to spend as much time with him/her as possible?
Yes but i dont need to wakeup/sleep next to them all the time
My wife and I moved in together before we got married but we had a child on the way
I see. I could go that route. You never know
YOU?
If you don't live with them first, you won't know if the marriage will work
Which is why i said when engaged
I wouldn't consider marrying someone if we haven't lived together for at least a year.
Which to me is the engagement phase 🤷♀️
I'd say separate bedrooms is a good compromise. I would be ok with that.
Same plus we’d barely use the other room but its still there if we want space
My own place. Far less drama if it does not work out.
Exactly
My wife and I were about to lose room mates so we eloped. We were not comfortable with living together. That was 1985, married April 1986
Oh wow
Without or combined money we would have sunk
If we’re inseparable then we’d rent a place otherwise I feel like it’s better to stay in our separate places.
I can be emotionally inseparable while liking my physical space
I assume most men will pick option A. They wanna wakeup and see her do her makeup, meander around for 4 hours on a Saturday while I'm ready to go do shit and have fun. etc. No thanks. When she's ready to have fun I'll be there.
So whats your answer? I can tell its the opposite but at what stage do you want to live together if at all
Never together. Tbh I don't think I'm 100% monogamous all the time. And I'm keeping it 100. Most dudes will jerk off to corn but like christ says, if you did it in your heart you might as well do it in reality
Porn and cheating with someone is not the same to me, unless thes actually communicating with a cam girl and not just jerking to a video
To me I don't see why if I have a female friend who's single and horny why I can't fuck her without guilt while in another relationship. We are all autonomous friends at the end of the day
Boy bye lmao
That's why I need money man. I wanna spoil my hoes
I don't care about marriage, just live together if you want to live together.
Okay
No, I would not live with a man before marriage. I don't give wife benefits to anyone
Everytime i tell a guy that living together unmarried just makes him more comfortable with getting the milk for free and not having to buy/marry the cow, they act all surprised saying “its not like that”. But i’ve seen those specific guys past relationships that went on for years and they never married the girl. Its exactly like that
Exactly!!
I agree with you. Keep our own places, live separately
Yeaa
I would definitely like to be living with my girlfriend especially if she is into everything that I am
I see
To be honest ill try to not live together at all before marriage due to religious laws
I respect that fully
My husband and I were married first.
Thats the best way in my opinion
It definitely was for us. We both had friends that lived together first. Many of them never married and the oes that did said their spouse was different after marriage than before. My husband and I only know marriage.