What is the best path forward to be able to get into a successful relationship?

[Anonymous]

So I’m autistic and my most recent relationship didn’t even happen until I was 29, I was very transparent at the start of the relationship about my autism which she indicated wasn’t and issue well that turned out to not be the truth, things about my autism started to annoy her and she was never interested in books I had about my form of autism, some of these I bought to help her better understand me but she never had time or simply wasn’t interested. I poured my heart into this relationship and it really did hurt to the core and I really don’t want this to happen again. I would rather have never dated then go through the humiliation of being lied to and then ultimately broke up with because of my disability.

[kylee2437]

I think there’s no right path to actually get into a successful relationship, I think most important is just finding someone that fits you, and also be willing to compromise. I know someone times us neurodivergent people have a more difficult time compromising which makes it more difficult to be seen as a good person to be in a relationship with. Just keep trying, don’t give up but most importantly try to learn a few things about yourself each person you communicate with

[Asker]

So the thing was I was compromising constantly but she would often have temper tantrums or blowups if she didn’t get her way