my husband isn’t going to the funeral but I don’t hate him hate him. My husband said he’s glad because he never wanted a baby by the girl. I just feel that he shouldn’t be here on earth as my husband son. My husband didn’t want him either. He didn’t want any ties to the girl. Am I wrong for feeling this way? He was killed in a fire.
Oh my god, that's super messed up. I can't believe your husband would say that about his own kid. No kid deserves to die, especially in a fire, that must have been terrifying. And you shouldn't be happy about it either, he was still a little human being. I know your husband didn't want to be tied to the mom, but that baby didn't do anything wrong. You gotta feel something, even if it's just sad about how he went out. No one wins in a situation like this. I'd say try showing some compassion even if you're still mad at the situation, for the baby's sake.
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It’s wrong but I guess I see why but any life is precious and shouldn’t be looked at in that way so it’s definitely bad saying that
Wow my eyes just opened wide with you saying that
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I think the proper thing to do is to mourn the loss of a young life. It is a tragedy, no matter the circumstances.
Ooh. It sure isn't nice I have to say. It is not for me to beat you up over it. I do think being glad of a nasty painful death is tempting the fates and your husband not attending is a lack of grace.
You do you though.this is really messed up. A young life has ended and nobody should be happy abouut that. It is messed up that you name your kid after him. How can you even think that.
You are the personification of modern women --- congratulations.
Y’all both need counseling.
Yes so wrong
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