Should a man's mother teach his girlfriend what he likes?

[purplepoppy]

As every man knows if your girlfriend does something wrong, just explain how your mother did it. She'll appreciate the advice and strive to emulate her.

But wouldn't it be better if your mother and girlfriend spent more time together so she wouldn't make those mistakes? Where she could be shown things like how you like your sandwiches cut or how many sugars you like in your coffee because let's be honest you probably don't even know if you take sugar.

Why not suggest it to her? And If she's upset, simply tell her you'll buy her some crayons if she continues to act like a child. She'll immediately reflect on her behaviour and calm down.

[molonski2]

Wonderful suggestion..

My mother , who I didn't really like that much was a constant source of advice for my girlfriends since about the age of 16 !

How to cook , clean , sow , How my colours needed to be laid out , what they should and should not wear in public. If they had her skills , without her attitude , they all would have been perfect.

Sadly Mum ( Mom for the yanks ) was not quite so good at taking advice that would have been good to her to listen to , she also asked very direct questions...

" David , have you had sex with all those girls? " -- ' Only if they wanted me to Mum "

hahahhahahaha , new age for her time.

[AviatorTom]

Excellent idea... for a YouTube channel... "Moms Teach Girlfriends'.

[wolfcat87]

Sounds like there's a whole story behind this question and description... hahaha

No, the only thing I've ever needed a guy's mother to teach me is how to make his favorite food dishes. Other than that, our jobs will never overlap.

[Rei13]

Honestly skimmed through post but the title itself sounds creepy. Why would a man’s mother teach a girlfriend or wife what their son likes? That is just weird

[Lionman95]

No because my mum doesn´t know everything I like. I´d prefer to have a honest and open communication with my girlfriend because if she did something I want to be able to do something for her that´s something like that is a topic I talk about on my dates meaning like I ask a girl what her favourite snacks are or whether she prefers coffee or tea or energy drinks and how and when and why she drinks them and so on.

[sawno]

No, that seems so wrong to me. My girl learnt from me directly what I liked because I was a honest and open communicator. By the time she met my mom she already knew.

[sawno]

Also to clarify, if the girl initiates it that's cute but that is still not a matter of "Should".

[motownplayer2000]

No. Mistakes have to be made so you learn the boundaries of that person if otherwise not expressed or stated. If the man is anything like me, I don’t spend much time or hang out with my parents.. never had when I start elementary school. So my mom knows me, but not as well as she thinks she does. Some men that may work

[yikesyikesyikes]

oh my gosh no never the stupid mother inlaw already thinks she is the queen because she gave birth to a son... do not ever give her that power!!! If the son likes something he will tell you or you can introduce him to something new.

[Curmudgeon]

@purplepoppy Sarcasm combined with British understatement! You are becoming a fave.

[andreasderjuengere]

Isn't it easier to just mount a collar with an remote controlled electric shocker?

She will learn quickly.

[Andres77]

my mother didn’t do that. to cook and clean and do my own laundry and iron and yardwork and do basic maintenance around the house so don’t ever let him act like he doesn’t know how to do something because he’s being lazy

[Andres77]

* She told my wife

[IslaTheWitch]

No, thank you. I prefer my son's girlfriend to discover him by herself...

creepy idea :D

I also prefer my own discovery process.

[electromagnetic]

And in return, I will teach her how to suck his penis since she seems to know everything else she likes 😆

[SotiCoto]

No. How Freudian of you. Either he can show them by himself if it matters, OR he can just adapt to the way she does things.

[exitseven]

EWWWWW. I cannot even imagine how cringy that would be.

[MrCharlie13]

Only if the girlfriend asks out of her own will. As a guy, you should never push your girlfriend to be like your mother or do things like your mother

[Nifrayu]

My mother doesn't even know that much about what I like.

[Anonymous]

No, she should teach him what a girl likes lol.

[riverrat3]

The girl should ask the mom, then the mom will like the girl

[Kelly6]

@purplepoppy not a bad idea.

[elizamichale1]

Not a bad idea tbh

[sheikalana]

She can give her advice if asked.

[Pete671]

Mum should show her and demonstrate,,,

[Pterodon]

I don’t want my mother in my relationship

[OddBeMe]

Lord no. If that ever arises run for the hills.

[jimmy2]

Why not as long as it positive

[Anonymous]

Nope I don't take garbage at home...