Do you ever talk to a person who you wish would’ve met you before they met a shitty ex-spouse or something and it would’ve made things easier?

[Anonymous]

it really complicates things if someone is divorced and has children with another person. There’s been a few times where I think….. I wish you didn’t waste your time marrying and procreating with this scumbag. Could’ve saved a hell of a lot of trouble if you just met me to begin with. I know it’s not that simple, but I still think that way.

[smne35]

Hey I knew exactly what you talking about like my situation. Married woman cuz she was. She got pregnant when she told me she was pregnant. I just stepped up. Said okay well I got some hearts to break as I drop this news. Ex-wife is no goddamn. Good from day one wasn't a marriage. Kids was great. Focused my time raising them. I can write five books just on my marriage alone. Just didn't make no sense going through all that crap man. If I had to do it again my kids will see me on the weekend only or whenever I go get them but I wouldn't go through that again. I'll say if I see her again in 5 billion years that's too soon

[Anonymous]

I have, and to me it’s a sign you shouldn’t be with that person. Whatever you wish didn’t happen resulted in what you’re unhappy with now, even if you’re content in other aspects that one bad thing can gradually outweigh the good.

[Anonymous]

Yes, definitely.