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Nah we can talk about it
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Had something similar... Driving, on the way here from Ohio with a girlfriend I had in college, passing a car, out in the dessert with a single white driver, I gave him the finger for something stupid he did while I was passing him... the girl friend POUNDED ME IN THE SHOULDER WITH HER FIST... VERY HARD... saying..."what if he pulled a gun and shot you"?
I stopped the car, off the side of the road, and told her..."if you EVER lay hands on me ever again... you will be on your way back to Ohio, ... in a heart beat"
While in California, driving to LA, SHE mouthed to two Mexican's..."STUPID" ! while driving on the freeway... I then asked her..."What if THEY had a gun and shot you through the window" (More likely to happen in LA, than out in the dessert with a middle aged white man... wouldn't you say... Coach?
She moved back to Ohio sometime later... mercifully
Did she leave a bruise? lol
@coachTanthony damned near, and she had bony fists.
Damn those bony fists. lol
@coachTanthony Would you have acted as I did, with the current problem of 'domestic violence' of men beating women or hitting them?
I couldn't say... I do know though my life expectancy would be short if she is willing to mouth off at a drop of a hat at strangers so she would be gone.
It's not such a big deal to me if my wife did that. It would be a big deal if I slapped my wife. But I can really handle a slap from a woman. It's no biggie as I see it. So hardly a thing to break up over. If she smashed like a wine bottle over my head, that would make me consider breaking up.
Especially if it was an expensive bottle of wine lol
For sure! ๐ค๐ป (although non-alcohol beer for me, quit drinking completely). Not trying to come off like some super tough guy (I'm not) but I mean a slap isn't going to be the type of thing for which I need therapy or a hospital to recover from. Just last year I received this from a bar brawl taking some really hard punches from a guy much bigger than me who totally kicked my ass.
And that wasn't such a big deal either. I thought it was funny and showed off the bruises. ๐
wow that is horrific
Now if I slapped my wife though, that would be horrible. I might break up with her if I did since I would feel so guilty and would not want her to stay with a husband who hit her. But that's not a double standard as I see it because it's my duty to protect her from harm as man to woman which I would have failed, not her duty to protect me from harm. She doesn't fail anything if she slaps me except just behaving immaturely. We'll have to work on that immaturity but it's not the end of the world.
Wasn't so bad in that case because the guy was a complete gentleman and helped me back up to my feet after he knocked me down. Also I think I was being out of line; was way drunk. I'm only half-Japanese and sometimes Japanese treat me poorly sometimes being half and when I combine that with heavy drinking, I start to get paranoid and think every single person who even treats me with the slightest bit of disrespect is out to get me. So I made the mistake with that guy and he kicked my ass but then everything was cool and I was like, "Dude, you're an amazing fighter!" and I bought him some drinks.
One thing though from a Q I remembered, there was a man on here who asked a Q where his wife completely messed up his music playlist on his phone. Now that would seriously upset me if my wife did that. We'd have to have a serious talk about that after and maybe even go to marriage counseling if my wife did that to me. But again, slap is no big deal.
@GuyAnswersGirls123 What did he punch you with, a tractor?
@AngryCarl Felt like it! He was over a head taller than me and I learned from him later after we became buds over drinks that he studied Karate. I think that punch on the chest was one of the hardest I've ever taken. He kept it very civil though keeping it around the body. I think I would have been knocked out cold if he hit me in the face with one of those punches.
It was all just a misunderstanding though. I've since quit drinking alcohol and in part since I was starting to lose my mind a bit. Started to develop dementia-like symptoms towards the end.
@AngryCarl He also gave me a gut punch around the lower left part of my rib. I think that caved in my lungs a bit since I was wheezing and coughing for weeks after and it was itchy to breathe on my left side of the lung. Don't think it damaged any ribs though.
@AngryCarl I got this as well where he caught me in the shoulder while I tried to dodge. His punches were really great!
That said, I'm used to skateboarding and other extreme sports and I think I've taken much worse hits and didn't bruise so badly. I think the reason these bruises look so bad is not only because I was hit very hard but also because I was extremely drunk (I already drank one whole bottle of whiskey before I went out to the bar and then drank way more at the bar).
I think the extreme intoxication had the vasodilation effect which contributed to the extreme bruising.
Oops sorry, didn't mean to post that twice.
@GuyAnswersGirls123 Yes that might account for it. It also might account for getting into the fight.
@AngryCarl Both for sure. ๐ค I've quit drinking since October of last year for a variety of reasons, but that tendency to get into trouble is included among a very long list of reasons I need to avoid alcohol. ๐
I never thought any woman should slap anyone in the face or anywhere else.
In those real old movies it was common for a woman to slap a guy in the face and he would just stand there and take it - like he deserved it. I always waited to see if he'd slap her right back, but no, they didn't.
Nah imma slap the shit out of them in return and then we can break up 😁
@Brainsbeforebeauty Now that was my answer.
@Brainsbeforebeauty time for a break, time for a kit kat, give me the kit kat crunchy sponge and i'll spare your life ๐๐ผโโ๏ธ๐ฌ
@Brainsbeforebeauty i think that you must start to learn Portuguese sponge, to be able to communicate with this guy "slapE brOUkup wHit" ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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If a girl tries to slap me, that shows that she feels entitled to use physical force in an aggressive manner, and it is a warning sign of what lies ahead if such behavior is tolerated. Slap me and I'm outta there! Forever!
A one-time slap... no, wait til both calm down and talk about it.
More than once.. definitely consider your exit plan.
Depends on what I said. Was it slap worthy? Then yeah I'd stay around and talk it out
I don't believe any word is worth a physical reaction...
@IslaTheWitch some words def are worth it
words are not doing physical harm. And how they are received in half depends on the receiver's filters. So no... no word is worth a physical response
@IslaTheWitch words can hurt more than a slap ๐ Maybe that's just my opinion tho
they can, but how much they hurt is only partially in the person who says them. Receiver has own filters which can calm or multiply the effect.
So if it hurts, reply with words, but not hands, because you never know if intention was equal the effect you felt
@Apple1996 if it was me, i'll throw an apple on you miss apples ๐๐ haha
@TonyMetal___86 I don't like food fights lol
There will be no fight, you will swallow it like pac-man and run away ๐คฃ๐คฃ
@TonyMetal___86 in this case you should be running away lol
@IslaTheWitch haha, you know the game ey miss isla, well yes i'll run away for a little bit before i recharge my power again ๐
No, Miss.
Iโve told a very dominant man he is a Bastard right in front of everyone when he was bossing people around,
He stood up, kissed my hand and asked me out on a date for my courage.
Thereโs nothing you say that deserves a slap.
Not to mention I didnโt go on a date with him, speaking of him, he texted me yesterday asking me out again. I havenโt answered.
I'd dump him, but first I'd give him a farewell kick in his balls.
lol,
I don't know what one should do generally speaking. i will sure as hell break up on the spot. because in no possible reality is "being hit by your partner" ok in a relationship i ever want to have. if you hit me, you disqualified yourself from being my partner forever. i don't even care if you're sorry... or if you learn, grow and improve and never do it again. you can show the next guy how much progress you made. i'm done.
One time she slept me because i told her we have to take a break 😂😂 she was Russian girl and i didn't take a break and i didn't broukup whit her
But i ask her for hard sex and i slept her 7 times. Ohhh 😂😂
Fuck i miss her
lol.
slapping someone across the face during sex is not normal lol
slapping ass maybe lol
That is a fetish not normal for the average person
If you hit me, you better be definitively in the right, or you best knock me clean out. Because once I'm awake, you're going to get the shit beat outta you.
Yes instantly...
Don't try to hit back the man , you'll just end up hurting yourself more from the abuser
Just pack bags and leave or maybe call the cops
Physical assault in any form is a deal breaker for me.
Will you ever lay a hand on your man miss isla? Or you accept to be treated the same way you're treating the other?
@TonyMetal___86 I have never laid my hand on anyone. And it will stay that way. I consider myself intelligent and let my brain solve problems, not my hands. It's an act of weakness if someone uses hands in response to words.
Smart answer miss isla, also you're a woman, you can always solve things by love and care, that's a good weapon ๐
I'd like a woman to lay a hand but ONLY for cooking something delicious for me ๐
A woman's hands are made for cooking something delicious with love for her man ๐
@TonyMetal___86 not in my case. My hands were made for the keyboard :D but you can cook for me :D
Me cooking for you? Are you for real? ๐คฃ๐คฃ
I'm a caveman, if a woman doesn't cook for me, than she will become my meal ๐๐
Why your hands are made for the keyboard? ๐ค
I don't know how to cook and never will but i know how to buy and bring the ingredients so a woman cooks for me, if you don't mind, sometimes i like to stay in the kitchen to eat from the ingredients while the woman is cooking but sadly i got fired many times for this, fired from my own kitchen ๐ฅบ
@TonyMetal___86 as I said, I don't cook, so forget.
Don't worry i forgot, you too forget it ๐
Yeah she hits me and I'm done. This idea that it's acceptable for women to hit men, while at the same time not being acceptable for men to hit women is tired and disgusting.
No person has a right to lay hands on their partner, period.
My mother is a domestic violence worker, she's instilled in me that if your partner hits you, don't stay in that relationship.
After the ensuing talk, I personally feel it would still sadly result in the parting of the ways.
if I ever said anything that warranted a slapping, I would expect her to be the one doing the breaking up.
"slap me like you mean it..."
Yes you shouldnโt condone violence whatsoever if someone hits me thatโs it thereโs no going back
Why would someone hit you miss lauren?
@TonyMetal___86 nobodyโs hit me but if they did then there would be a lot of people after them
So does this gives you power to assault someone and if they assault you back, you will threaten them that they will be followed by a lot of people? ๐ค
@TonyMetal___86 I donโt assault people
If someone hits me Iโd go to the police.
Good girl miss Lauren, never lay a hand on a man thinking that you have power because it will make you lose all your feminine trait plus, not all men are the same, you might end up beaten till you pass out...
Be the respectful girl and try to resolve things in a loving smart way and everything will be just fine i guess...
I mean only a crazy person would beat you for nothing at all, such people shouldn't be allowed to walk between normal citizens...
@TonyMetal___86 I promise I would never lay a hand on anyone that would be disrespectful and I would be called a man beater which I donโt want to be called ๐
You're a good lady miss lauren ๐
@TonyMetal___86 thank you
You're welcome, you also have to promise me to never cry anymore for people who doesn't deserves your precious tears ๐
@TonyMetal___86 I promise
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@TonyMetal___86 sorry I was on a flight and couldnโt answer traveling back home this minute
No worries, glad that you have arrived home safe
@TonyMetal___86 thanks still got a few hour journey in car
Well be careful and come back home safe...
@TonyMetal___86 thanks my mums driving so she will get all of us home safe ๐
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A woman slapping me, are you for real? 🤣🤣
Common coach, you know me better than this haha
Her hand won't reach my face for sure, if i just block her slap, maybe her wrist bone will become broken, not going to add more than this! 😏
Do that to me and it will be the last time you do it to anyone.
Why you going to kill em? lol
Please don't delete my comments... no reason at all to do that.
My comment was your response had no more context then the previous one... somehow it's gone. GAG didn't do it.
You did it. Its all good
Oh no, look who's back on the site
I have never said anything to my wife that made her slap me. If I did and she slapped me, I'd deserve it. We would talk about it afterwards
Yes itโs over then and there. Cause they apologized then Month later again and again til someone in prison or dead. Some stories I seen on television often at time the victim is in prison.
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