Do you feel you're obligated to tell a sibling that their partner is cheating on them?

[Anonymous]

A lot of people feel that if someone were cheating on their friend, it's none of their business to tell them either because they don't want to get involved or "be responsible" for potentially ruining their relationship especially if kids are involved. Does that apply to family or is family a different situation? If you caught your siblings partner cheating, would you immediately tell your sibling?

[StarWarGirl]

Earlier when I was immature I used to feel like I'm obligated to let everyone know about anything important about them what I know. I mean regarding their personal lives or spouses children, parents etc. But now I do understand that i need not neither I should be. This is natural process of getting know about something it's own and that's way it's less traumatizing and less harmful also. I should not be ruining this natural process.

Sooner or later they would know. At least they can sense it

I tell only if it is really really important to reveal it. Like now it's time to if now it won't be told then there would be big loss to that person or their whole world would crash. I tell only when the safety of that person becomes important.

[JHAYES317]

Nah you should tell them every time…no one should stay with someone who is cheating on them…you are just prolonging their hardship

[naartjie]

100%. If I was with someone who was cheating and my brother knew but didn’t tell me. You best bet believe when I find out, they’re both getting cut off.

[Peter_Penetrator]

What happens when that sibling finds out you knew all along? Twice the betrayal.

[exitseven]

Yes, and if my best friends wife was cheating on him I would tell him too.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[TrueConfection]

Absolutely! Family is a different standard.

[electromagnetic]

If my siblings partner was cheating, I’d snitch sooooo quick.

[Anonymous]

I would tell my sisters if any of them was being cheated on, because I want to protect them. I don't want them to waste time on someone who cheats and is going to break their hearts.

[laly520]

if I had a sibling whos dating a cheater I would def tell

[AmeerX]

Only tell if you have reasonable proof beyond doubt.

[DextroShade]

I would definitely tell my brothers if their wives were cheating.

[lucas262]

Yes, if my family knew and didn't tell me id never forgive them. That'd hurt more than losing her

[OtterMan68]

If I knew for a fact cheating was going on, of course I would. I love my siblings

[Bklynbadboy12]

Normally I admire my business , but if it's my sibling , i'm getting involved and i'm definitely telling them

[Stacy0706]

Yes If you don’t to me it’s like you cheated in my opinion.

[JacobJordan]

Not my life not my problem.

[goaded]

Yes. Even if they're not!

[Kelly6]

No need to jump into problem

[Vick2828]

You better tell them

[Simslover92]

1000%

[JHAYES317]

Yes of course

[sirderpsalot123]

Yeah

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely.

[riverrat3]

Not my place