What is your definition of setting a boundary In a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Some idiot pink who shall not be named told me that telling my wife that I was uncomfortable with and not okay with a behavior my wife was doing was not setting a boundary, yet every definition of setting a boundary I have come across includes verbally expressing your needs and things you're both okay with and not okay with.

I don't mention this persons name because of member post guide lines, but the sheer idiocy of the comment cannot be understated.

psychcentral.com/.../what-are-personal-boundaries-how-do-i-get-some

[MrOracle]

You are doing exactly as you should do - and exactly what most women do in a relationship. Setting boundaries and expectations is a normal part of being in a relationship.

The problem is that Feminism has taught women that boundaries for men are good and reasonable but that boundaries for women are controlling and slavery. They can't have it both ways.

[DextroShade]

When a woman sets a boundary it's a boundary; when a man sets a boundary he's toxic, controlling, and insecure. Women excel at hypocrisy, it's one of the few things they do better than men.