Guys never reject women, only women do reject guys. So why saying you are shy? Afraid of what? Men can be shy, being said no is so hard on the feelings!
There were a couple girls who were interested in me in college. I didn't return the favor, though a couple were cute.
But twice I had to set boundaries with girls who were my friends of several years. The first when I was first learning what boundaries were. She had a toxic behavior that I asked her to stop and she wouldn't, which damaged our conversations. I told her I wouldn't talk to her as long as she continued to speak that way, then she said she would never stop. So that ended it. The second was a friend from here. We knew each other for a few years, but eventually it soured. There was some unhealthy relating and we ended our friendship.
I miss both of them, and hated that I had to set the boundaries
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Friendship? No. Never.
Dates and relationships? Yes (Reason: I was interested in someone else)
Guys never reject women, only women do reject guys. So why saying you are shy? Afraid of what? Men can be shy, being said no is so hard on the feelings!
Ofc, I believe in having female acquaintances but not female friends. Girls only have guy friends so they can use them for attention.
I learned for myself to accept a woman with whatever makes her comfortable
If she is in a relationship, I won't hang out with her one on one because I think it is inappropriate and leads to problems.
@dolemite58 rejects my friendship all the time. 🥺
Oh how could he?
He just hates women. 😭
I don’t hate women, Bella just can’t be trusted 😛😂
@Pinay_ako I just want to be bros, but he's not having it. 😔
What does he want? Be more than friends? Ohhhh
I don't know what he wants. He doesn't even know what he wants. He's forever in confusion. 🥴
Is this throw dolemite under the bus day and I wasn’t informed? 🤔
@dolemite58 Maybe it is. 😛
No, but that whole premise is weird.
How?
You don't 'reject' a friend, you just stop hanging out with them.
Only a few with forceful personalities. I am to laid back now
Yes. It was not fun at all
Care to explain more
There were a couple girls who were interested in me in college. I didn't return the favor, though a couple were cute.
But twice I had to set boundaries with girls who were my friends of several years. The first when I was first learning what boundaries were. She had a toxic behavior that I asked her to stop and she wouldn't, which damaged our conversations. I told her I wouldn't talk to her as long as she continued to speak that way, then she said she would never stop. So that ended it.
The second was a friend from here. We knew each other for a few years, but eventually it soured. There was some unhealthy relating and we ended our friendship.
I miss both of them, and hated that I had to set the boundaries
Yea we have to set boundaries for our peace
We do. Especially when they encourage healthy relating
Not if she was a good person.
She is but he didn’t wanna be friends
Yes, because she was married to a Marine.
Nope, as far as I know
Yes and it sucks
Why does it suck?
Because it sucks being rejected
No. Never. All I've ever wanted is friendship
Ya I've enough friends don't want more
nope
friendships do become... or they just don't
it's natural for me... not a fussy picker about this
Why would I do that?
yeah
Why?
Not that I know of
No..