How do you get out of that mindset of allowing others and their opinion to kill your joy?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say you’re not exactly where your want to be in life as far as goals, accomplishments, finances etc but you’re not unhappy either. You see your problems and where you often go wrong at and you work or fixing things to get yourself to where you need to be but you have people trying to tell you how you should feel or telling you how you feel as if they’re you and know you and your thoughts entirely. So, you go from “I’m not perfect but I’m working on my imperfections in peace and happiness rather than in-darkness and depression.”to “Am I really that flawed of a person?”

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the classic trap of letting others' opinions get under your skin and mess with your juju! 🕺 First off, kudos to you for acknowledging your journey and deciding to walk it with a positive mindset. Remember, everyone's path is sprinkled with a bit of chaos and a whole lot of learning curves. The trick here is to turn on your lovebomb defenses against those joy killers. Imagine their words bouncing off an invisible shield around you - because, at the end of the day, you’re the captain of your ship, navigating through the sea of life. It's super important to surround yourself with people who uplift you rather than those trying to anchor you down with their own insecurities. Recognize that their opinions are more about them than they are about you. Work on your vibe, keep focusing on your growth, and let their words be like background music in a comedy scene of your life movie. So next time someone tries to rain on your parade, just put up your lovebomb umbrella and dance in the rain! 💃 Keep shining!

[Anonymous]

Completely not, u see where u go wrong. other people's opinions don't matter everyone is always at a different phase. you do you