My girlfriend doesn't have a relationship status on Facebook anymore?

[shadowarrior99]

I need to talk to her, but she doesn't have a relationship status of us on fb anymore. Is something amiss?

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She was cheating on me with her ex and is a pathological liar. That was the reason it wasn't on there.

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[CrystalMinds]

That depends. If there was one and she deleted it, something might be up. Or she just thinks she doesn't need to share her private information with the entire world, but if she puts a lot of other stuff on there, that might not be the case.

As long as it doesn't say she's single...no big need to worry. But if you think it's quite important or you feel insecure, just meet up with her and see if she's acting normal. If it's a quiet time, ask her why she deleted your relationship off of Facebook.

[Lovet]

I've watched this often: Whenever somebody hid the status "in a relationship with" it meant no good. I can only guess but I assume you have a long term relationship, she seems to be bored by it as I see it...talk to her! This is always alarming because why would you take the time do this if you're really in love and happy...

[EmpressMe]

Sounds shady.

You should asker her about it upfront, face to face. "Why does your FB say you're not in a relationship anymore?"

[shadowarrior99]

Thank you for defending me with your view, empressMe.

[EmpressMe]

yw :) her behavior is so not cool at all and people shouldn't negate the shadiness of it just because it's FB

[EmpressMe]

@update, okay so her new boyfriend has an untrustworthy, unreliable, disloyal cowardly girlfriend who can't even be upfront to be direct and SINCERE about the guy she wants. Yeah, he's a winner no doubt! lol! (so sarcastic)

[shadowarrior99]

You summed it up right there. Haha. That's essentially it. Thanks!

[EmpressMe]

lol, no problemo :) seriously, you didn't lose anything highly valuable. It will not be difficult to find a female who can treat you better and make you happier as well as leave you with better memories

[shadowarrior99]

That's a great way to put it :)

[Drrk123]

I believe it is a very bad sign. Talk to her, but be cool about it. Bring the subject up casually and do not react at all, no matter what her answer is. Prepare something completely different to talk about right after.

Chances are, you will have to start looking for a new girlfriend soon. I hope not, but the probability is there. Best of luck buddy.

[Acroatic]

Yeah... I would be a little worried... Why take it off? Who doesn't she

want to see that?

She should want to show she is with you . Real life or

not..

Not showing it seems a little sneaky to me .

Only reason I would want it off , is if I am shopping around for a new

person...

[Konnour]

It's completely certain that it's nothing good.

As the guy below said - prepare to find a new girlfriend.

[Koldhearted]

it is possible to hide the status

but I'd be concerned too. She took the time and effort to hide it, so there must be a reason

[liltabbixxo]

Probably...lame as it sounds, this is common these days

[teasegirl]

are you really asking something about Facebook? lol that is what this world has come to. FACEBOOK STATUS! lol she prob broke up with you, have you checked that a random girl didn't put a smiley face or heart on your wall?

[EmpressMe]

Here's the thing though: people get on Facebook to project an image of themselves and their life that they want everyone to see. So if she wants everyone to see that she's single, then that could be problematic. She could be cheating on him.

[teasegirl]

It specifically says "single" or just doesn't say anything? She could be cheating on him even if it said "married" that doesn't change anything. Honestly if their relationship is based on Facebook status what kind of relationship is it? He can't even call her and ask her?

Thanks for being the first down vote for this comment ; )

[EmpressMe]

well yeah, duh lol, but it makes a significant difference if you are in a relationship with someone who basically tells everyone she knows "I'm single" or "There's no one that I'm involved with." Why are you trying to act like it's not a big deal when it is? It's shady and a tad bit disrespectful. Just because she did it via FB doesn't make it meaningless. If you had a boyfriend you wouldn't mind at all that he practically told everyone there's no girlfriend in his life?

[helpfulgirl101]

Facebook means nothing. It should not define your relationship.

[teasegirl]

Agree! XD

[Southerngal10]

Did she remove other details too? If yes then I wouldn't worry. If no, then yes that is a warning sign.

[kdizzleforizzle91]

If it was there previously and isn't anymore, I'd ask about it. It could be nothing, but it could be something... you really should ask.

[Anonymous]

naw don't ask it will make you look obsessed/insecure... just look for signs the relationship isn't going well, like if she is ignoring, etc. If everything is fine, don't worry about it.

[shadowarrior99]

but WHY? If she is not gonna have arelationship status, then I'm not.

[shadowarrior99]

the relationship ISNT going well

[Opinion Owner]

maybe it was a mistake, fb is not real life, if she is distant in real life then there's problems, don't take a damn status so serious!

[EmpressMe]

how does it make him look obsessed and insecure? She is subliminally saying "I want to project the image to everyone I know that I am not in a relationship." That is shady as hell. That makes it look like she could be cheating or dating someone else. He would be passive and foolish to ignore this!

[crazybastard]

are you sure she is the girlfriend in this relationship?

[teasegirl]

lol awesome

[helpfulgirl101]

Haha!

[anon1111]

She's not your girlfriend anymore, bro.

[teasegirl]

What a bitch.

[shadowarrior99]

yeah, you're telling me.

[Anonymous]

maybe its because you say the word amiss...

[SirJameson]

I know using good English words is a total turn off isn't it?

[teasegirl]

Lol

[Anonymous]

Talk to her about it then.

[shadowarrior99]

she's at work :/