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I'm an ugly girl, but I want a handsome boyfriend? (Page 2)
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What you put in is what you get out. I'm not sure how you are on a daily basis, but this question completely undermines you saying "I'm not shallow."
I'm frank, why I was going to say that I really care about the personality when i care more about the way he looks.
Personality is in second place.
If you're really frank you'd have said that, and not "I'm not shallow." I'm not condemning you or anything. At least your honest.
Well, now you're honest. ;P
For me , liking someone only based on his/her appearence is not shallow.
The English definition is "of little depth." There is no "depth" about appearance. But again, I'm not talking down on you, I'm just making a correction.
Liking someone based on his/her personality is risky.
People can pretend to be some way but they're another way.
Even the appearance is problematic, I mean, like girls who wear makeup and looks gorgeous but without it look awful.
You know, at least with guys what you see is what you get... mostly of time.
But the personality... eh... nope.
Personality is risky. Losing your looks is certainty.
I agree with a lot of the points you made there, though. I knew that men pretend to act a certain way to get in a woman's pants, but the shit I heard lately is kinda surprising. Just at how hard and long they're willing to keep up the charade.
it's sad.
People should be sincere since the first time about themselves and their purposes. Many guys ( a lot) do what you said, and after getting laid, they just kick her out.
And the bad part about looks , yeah, getting older = losing attractiveness
Why do you think you're ugly? Or do you feel you're ugly because you haven't been able to attain the kind of guy you're attracted to?
I know, that's every fathers fear when having a daughter. Kinda contradictory for the guys who partook in such behavior.
Because I don't invest time and money trying to look good.
And yeah, it's ironical.
Really ironical
Out of curiosity, why not?
Also, not even for your personal satisfaction, but don't you want your partner to be happy too? Assume you did get a handsome boyfriend, how do you expect to keep your partner from straying if you're not doing your part in satisfying their needs?
If you put it that way...
If I get a handsome guy as a boyfriend, I might take care of my look.
Personal satisfaction... I'm a nerd, i get satisfied by getting better marks than my partners.
"Personal satisfaction... I'm a nerd, i get satisfied by getting better marks than my partners."
Personally, I like that.
Physical attraction isn't just important in "keeping" a man. It's probably more important in *attaining* one. Having a marriage license, children, and a mortgage is harder to walk away from than a girl you have no obligations to.
Everything @kheserthorpe said is true in this regard. Men aren't triggered neurologically by status, wealth, and achievements in the way women are. "Believing others like us for the same reason we like them", it's self-projection. It's not reality. If that's the "caliber" of men you wish to attain, there's no way around having to improve in the domains that men find desirable.
In any case, you don't seem like a bad person. And I think you may be overly critical on your appearance. Good luck.
Lol, thanks.
Anyway I'm happy because I corroborated a belief about mostly of guys.
You're welcome. What belief is that?
This: ''Men are not triggered neurologically by status, wealth, and achievements in the way women are. ''
Thought as a woman, I don't care about a guy's wealth, achievements and status, I don't even get interested in a guy because of that.
I care about my own goals.
So, well, there's always a minority , as myself.
Anyway I liked your comments :D
There's nothing wrong if you're seeking for a handsome guy. Every person looking for a beautiful partner in their life but overall apart from looks you also need to see the character of that person. You may get a handsome guy but what if he doesn't loves you. Pure heart is also important with good looking.
And I think you need to be happy with the way you are hindi mai ek kahawat hai na dost "Har chamak ta huwa chiz sona nhi hota" :). May god bless you
i agree with you and i o believe character matters most but i also wanted eye candy lol
but then i thought to myself "well i can't really not take care of myself and then ask for a guy who does... he will also need something to look at"
If I was you I would tone my body and make it hot! And dress stylish all the time. You would be surprised how mush can a hot body and style do to a person.
Stop being shallow and look for someone with a personality that matches yours. Work on bettierng yourself socially and judge people off there character not what they look like. Personally is what leads to a nice long lasting relationship, not looks.
So what's your worth? You sound desperate. I've seen okay looking girls with reasonably good looking guys. But not an ugly girl.
I'm smart.
And let's be serious.
Intelligence> Beauty,
It's a fact.
So i would be worthier than a handsome guy. He should be the grateful one.
Are you good at seducing and charming them with your mind?
No.
I don't even like to flirt.
I just wanted to see the answers.
But with intelligence i can become wealthy and find a nice model.
Well i think an asexual good looking chap might be most suited to you.
Are you into sex?
No. I'm not.
Anyway i have enough with looking at handsome guys.
Ok. I think an asexual guy might suit u.
Just smart isn't enough for creating strong children. You need to look healthy, look beautiful and have strong genes because the world is made for beautiful people to have ti all. Even in the job market the most attractive people win the job even if they are not attractive. Calm down a bit and get off your pedastol you are not that special. And if you are smart then just hang out with Mensa people if you qualify to be there anyway. Your net-value might be an X amount of money but your value as a kind person interesting to be around is really low in my opinion.
@EvaMin she's not after procreation
Girl please don't call yourself ugly. Remember you're beautiful no matter what. And dress properly, eat healthy study hard. I mean how much time and money dies those things take. Go out and try to be more social.
Your beauty is inside. One day you will remember that days that you think that you ugly and will laugh.
In right time you will find the right person.
well i know of ugly and average-looking girls who have very good-looking boyfriends so its definitely possible
I know it's possible.
then what are you asking?
See all those comments?
I wanted to see other people's opinions for my amusement.
Sometimes they have interesting points and arguments
hullo miss.
are you even sure you're as unattractive as you say?
I'm average, but since I don't take care about my image, i look ugly.
Work out and be smart. Looks fade, so you'll get there.
But I don't want to spend time trying to look good.
It's a waste.
If you don't want invest time in something good, why should someone who does invest time in you? But of course, there are enough other assets like intelligence and loyalty. I'm sure you'll find someone.
I'm smart, a total joker, and being smart it's better than having physical beauty.
I know, it's ironic.
It's like the nerdy guy-hot girl thing.
Obviously an smart and nice person but just average when it comes to attractive it's the best option for a long term relationship.
You say you are smart which I really doubt because real geniouses dont shout it out loud but you are not a kind person either. You are very superficial. By the way you are also trolling it seems as you say you are not into sex but in the update you say you are looking for a sexual relationship. I dont know if you are truly ugly or not but surely your soul is ugly and I wouldn't even hang out as a friend with you.
Lol yee If you can be wealthy, you can get some hot guys looking for money.
Exactly. Like Donatella Versace.
I have seen plenty of ugly girls with ugly guys in real life and beauty is in the eye of the beholder don't give up.
You'll find someone, that's a bit shallow of you though, to say you only like handsome guys.
I'm being frank.
And they must be blondes or gingers.
What can i do about my tastes?
Blame the brain.
give us a picture you may not be a ugly as you think. if you get rich you can have surgery to make you lovely. in the mean time learn how to give bjs and fu ck like an animal.
Reverse the genders, and everyone would call him entitled
Why not work on improving your looks?
Handsome guys can get pretty girls.
Picture! Picture! Picture! (/ ._.)/
It doesn't matter how other people sees me. The only opinion that truly matters it's how i see myself. And I'm ugly , my face it's not very attractive.
And you would get blind.
That is true.
But do you believe you're ugly due to what people have told you, or what the media portray? if so, then you do care. No one comes out the womb and decide that they are ugly.
I wish you the best though, hopefully you find beauty within yourself so your handsome guy can find it as well.
No, people says that I'm cute. Maybe for them, not for me.
The media... it's sad how they force people to fit in so many stupid stereotypes.
Like all women should wear make up.
I can look what media calls ''cute'' but in order to do that, i would have to spend money and time , in make up, stupid clothes, and so many other things.
Hell , i rather to die alone.
Dud im a handsome 20 year old and i so badly want a bbw goth girl or ugly girl, its my fantasy and i can't seem to get none😭
i need a picture or else I cannot tell you what to do