It definetly does for me! The past does matter, i don't want someone to give or involve me in problems from their past. "the past is not always the past"
oh! I didn't think about criminal past. yea, that would be a serious issue for me if they had a violent past, silly little things wouldn't bother me though.
I believe a persons history may have an effect on them, however i do not believe people should play victim to their pasts, make sense?
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To some extent yes. I had dated a girl who once told me she had an abortion at 14 (she was 16) at the time. This really didn't sit well with me, and it caused problems. It's a clear act of negligence/ disconnection from humanity.
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"Hey babe, I just want you to know. I murdered like 20 people in gruesome ways like 2 years ago in a cabin out in the middle of nowhere."
"Oh don't worry about it hun. The past is in the past..."
for me, it matters. i couldn't possibly be with anyone without knowing that. i respect other views though.
It definetly does for me! The past does matter, i don't want someone to give or involve me in problems from their past. "the past is not always the past"
NOBODY WANTS TO MARRY THE HOOKER OF THE TOWN.
Nobody would like to have problems with violent exes.
Etc etc
You could have learned from your mistakes, but that doesn't mean you didn't make them.
:O
How foreboding Meson.
Fuck the past. I don't care about it.
If we ask too much about it the present gets all screwed. No thanks, I rather enjoy the moment.
I voted C because it matters to a certain extent, it still tells you a lot about the person BUT I believe that people can still change for the better.
Sexual past doesn't matter in my opinion.
Criminal past is another matter. (and drugs too are criminal)
oh! I didn't think about criminal past. yea, that would be a serious issue for me if they had a violent past, silly little things wouldn't bother me though.
Just because someone has a past doesn't mean that they can't have a future
I believe a persons history may have an effect on them, however i do not believe people should play victim to their pasts, make sense?
To some extent yes. I had dated a girl who once told me she had an abortion at 14 (she was 16) at the time. This really didn't sit well with me, and it caused problems. It's a clear act of negligence/ disconnection from humanity.
Yes a person past gives indication of their behavior in the future.
I'm somewhere in between, it matters quite a bit, but it's not the most important thing.
If the past didn't matter we should never put anyone in prison
only what can come back to haunt them matters. the rest is irrelevant.
This reminded me of that movie called 'The gift' for some reason. I literally just watched it.
Voted C. The past only matters if it influences the present.
No because people need your permission to post stuff hahallolol.
It matters it show there challenge and journey!
The past matters because it makes you who you are.
Depends on what's in their past