Yes, actually men have full control of abortion by choosing the woman they have sex with in the first place. I would never have sex with a woman that refers to a growing child to a 'klumpf of cells'. They can go abort some other guys kids but not mine.
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The burden of pregnancy was not equally distributed between a man and woman by nature.
More burden and responsibility of creating a child fell onto the woman.
That means she gets more rights when it comes to whether or not she will go through with the pregnancy
The descison should be clear before getting pregnant ever happens NOT after. Ultimately it would be the girls descision. I find it sad you consider an unborn child "property"
it depends on the situation. if you plan to be parents together then yes absolutely. but if it was a one night stand and the guy won't be involved at all, then no
Of course they should have say, after all it's his baby too. If the woman doesn't wan't to take care of it, at least give the father a chance too if that's what he really want's to do.
For a man to have an equal say, he needs to have an equal risk, If he wants a baby that bad, let him carry it himself. Or find a woman who is willing to bear him children.
It would be nice for that to happen but at the end of the day, it is her body. And, depending on the circumstances, she would probably ultimately be the only one caring for the child. Not always, but sometimes.
Its the woman's body so I don't think the man should have the right to have her grow anything in it she doesn't want to for nine months. But if he doesn't want to raise the child he should have some say in abortion I think. I mean I guess u could argue that still involves her body... but only for like a day lol.
Also, what if he is an abusive bully. If she gets pregnant and flhe has a say on her keeping it then she has it, she'll be tied to him for life through the child.
Nope, depends on the abuser. Plenty of abusive men love kids. And love even more anything that will keep you subservient. Eg: not being able to leave him because u have no money because u can work as he insisted u stay home and raise the child.
If you dont want to deal with pregnancy, thats your choice, no man will argue about that. It is a crazy long time with an enormous physical impact on your body.
But as I said, it is a child and if you were willing to bring it into life and the father is willing to raise it on his own, without the mother, he should be able to do that.
There are so many Single-Mums, why can't there be equally many Single-Dads?
Of course, the biological mother should then also have to pay childsupport. (please dont hate on me for stating that)
@MrMilti I agree. It would be nice if the girl chose to have it even if she didn't want it if he was willing to raise it. But the thing is, if he changed his mind, she would be the one 'stuck' with a child she hadn't wanted so... would be silly to take his word on it.
They should be able to say what they think is right and have a (small) say in the matter but in the end it comes down to the woman as she will be carrying this child for nine months.
If she decided to keep the child, then he would be responsible for financially, so he should have a say , to some degree.. if he doesn't have a say, then he should be relieved of his parental rights and financial responsibility at his choosing.
Nope. I don't care what he wants. He doesn't have to possibly live with pushing a 10lb watermelon through his crotch, I do. You can say all you want, but it's going to happen.
I agree except or the last sentence.. I don't support abortions, but I feel in some situations it may be necessary. And yes! the man should have a say in the matter if he wants her to go through with the pregnancy.
Yes since half that baby is theirs but it won't matter much anyways if the women doesn't take it into account because at the end of the day its their decision
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Yes, actually men have full control of abortion by choosing the woman they have sex with in the first place. I would never have sex with a woman that refers to a growing child to a 'klumpf of cells'. They can go abort some other guys kids but not mine.
The burden of pregnancy was not equally distributed between a man and woman by nature.
More burden and responsibility of creating a child fell onto the woman.
That means she gets more rights when it comes to whether or not she will go through with the pregnancy
The descison should be clear before getting pregnant ever happens NOT after. Ultimately it would be the girls descision. I find it sad you consider an unborn child "property"
it depends on the situation. if you plan to be parents together then yes absolutely. but if it was a one night stand and the guy won't be involved at all, then no
Of course they should have say, after all it's his baby too. If the woman doesn't wan't to take care of it, at least give the father a chance too if that's what he really want's to do.
The man cannot carry a pregnancy inside his body and go through the ordeal of childbirth therefore it is not an equal argument.
For a man to have an equal say, he needs to have an equal risk, If he wants a baby that bad, let him carry it himself. Or find a woman who is willing to bear him children.
It would be nice for that to happen but at the end of the day, it is her body. And, depending on the circumstances, she would probably ultimately be the only one caring for the child. Not always, but sometimes.
They should be able to say 'I don't want it so get rid' sure. But they shouldn't have a right to make her keep it.
why? then women don't have the right to force men to support the child
Is it because you dont want to go through all 9 months of pregnancy, or because you dont want to care for a baby?
Because I could imagine being a single father, if the mother does not want to.
@MrMilti
she doesn't want to care for a baby that is why doesn't want to go through all 9 months of pregnancy lol
Its the woman's body so I don't think the man should have the right to have her grow anything in it she doesn't want to for nine months. But if he doesn't want to raise the child he should have some say in abortion I think. I mean I guess u could argue that still involves her body... but only for like a day lol.
I believe many men would want women to get abortions as they wouldn't have to pay for child support.
Also, what if he is an abusive bully. If she gets pregnant and flhe has a say on her keeping it then she has it, she'll be tied to him for life through the child.
eh, abusive men are the ones who don't want children
Nope, depends on the abuser. Plenty of abusive men love kids. And love even more anything that will keep you subservient. Eg: not being able to leave him because u have no money because u can work as he insisted u stay home and raise the child.
*can't work
If you dont want to deal with pregnancy, thats your choice, no man will argue about that. It is a crazy long time with an enormous physical impact on your body.
But as I said, it is a child and if you were willing to bring it into life and the father is willing to raise it on his own, without the mother, he should be able to do that.
There are so many Single-Mums, why can't there be equally many Single-Dads?
Of course, the biological mother should then also have to pay childsupport. (please dont hate on me for stating that)
@MrMilti well said. I like you.
@MrMilti I agree. It would be nice if the girl chose to have it even if she didn't want it if he was willing to raise it. But the thing is, if he changed his mind, she would be the one 'stuck' with a child she hadn't wanted so... would be silly to take his word on it.
They should be able to say what they think is right and have a (small) say in the matter but in the end it comes down to the woman as she will be carrying this child for nine months.
If she decided to keep the child, then he would be responsible for financially, so he should have a say , to some degree.. if he doesn't have a say, then he should be relieved of his parental rights and financial responsibility at his choosing.
Nope. I don't care what he wants. He doesn't have to possibly live with pushing a 10lb watermelon through his crotch, I do. You can say all you want, but it's going to happen.
I'm sorta on the fence because some guys would literally say they never wanted the child if they didn't want/couldn't afford to pay child support
And the man should also pay the woman about $100,000 for carrying the pregnancy
Nope. It's her body. However, he should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood, no ifs ands or buts about it. #equality
It's not her body either. She's just a factory. But, it takes his genes also to help make the finished product.
@dandee55
False it is her body. Doesn't matter the make up of the child, it's a parasite until it leaves her body.
Do you really believe that? A baby is not her body! That's such a ridiculous statement.
@dandee55 don't mind prochoicers
I agree except or the last sentence.. I don't support abortions, but I feel in some situations it may be necessary. And yes! the man should have a say in the matter if he wants her to go through with the pregnancy.
Yes both parents should have a say so when it comes to abortion.
They have the right to express their thoughts and feelings on the matter but in the end it's the woman's decision.
Yes since half that baby is theirs but it won't matter much anyways if the women doesn't take it into account because at the end of the day its their decision
i didn't read anything but the tle
and my answer is no men shoukd not have a say in abortion
YES ! Men have the total right to say in abortion.
We don't live in a patriarchy anymore. Women have rights now
@jacquesvol women have rights for murder
proteingal The Law doesn't consider it murder, except inn some Latin American countries where you face jail if you have a miscarriage.
@jacquesvol when the fetus becomes a human being abortion becomes murder?
@decentguy, then stop having sex with women. Become a monk or so.
when the embryo is viable outside the body
@jacquesvol so after that abortion is murder?