I have no problem giving up my seat for some one who needs it, elderly or pregnant or what have you, but not some one who feels entitled to it.
In fact thats a good way of getting me to be as uncooperative as possible. I had a woman at work ask me for help getting something that was heavy for her (older woman), I said sure. Was about to walk to get it when the woman next to her said, "yeah, its the mans job anyway". Long story short I brought back the item they needed, set it down and right in front of our customers looked the woman dead in the eye and asked, "well I did the mans job of doing the heavy lifting, are you going to go do the womans job of making me a sandwich?". Pissed the girl off and the customers response was something like "I didn't think you could say something like that". Point is your not entitled to anything and you should never feel entitled to anothers good will, its a good way to piss them off and burn bridges with them.
It'd depend. I can understand your frustration, but remember that she may be tired, or overwrought, or just feel a greater need to sit. She's also just asking- not trying to force anything. Yet, at least. I suspect that what bothers you is the social expectation that you suffer to support someone who wants an advantage just because of how she was born, and that's perfectly reasonable of you- but expecting to find unfairness around every corner is not a healthy way to think. It's all too easy for anger to become hate, and to slip into a mindset of thinking that everyone's out to get things from you. Paranoia's not worth what it gets you.
Do women really do stuff like that? I don’t know one women who would claim entitlement to a seat just for being a woman. While I’m sure they are out there, as are men with entitlement issues, I call bullshit. I don’t think this happens enough to make a big deal out of it. It’s not a man/woman thing.
It’s entitlement thing, and it crosses all genders.
I'd tell her to get lost 😂
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u She would never get to the point of asking because I would have already offered it to her.
A few years ago I was on my way home, only 2people on this single decker. It pulled into a town's bus station. I'm right at the back in the corner. Then these lads and lasses got on so they all piled on it ended up this girl sitting on my knee. She was about 20and a little drunk. Am I dreaming it felt like a carry on film. We had a laugh and joke, one said do you be getting a hard on. I just laughed. But with her moving about and the bus. I was trying not to think about things like that. There she is with her arm round my neck. Asking questions. All I could see were boobs shaking about. I ended up missing my stop the bus was that full. So we got to there stop and they all got up.
She said you are a love and kissed me on the lips and touched my cock and said hope I didn't crush it and gave me another kiss. All the way back I was thinking did that just happen...
I travel in the bus a lot the last 3 years and i have never seen this happen
People give their seat up to elderly, pregnant women and women with children carrying groceries
What you stated isn't common in my area at least
If she’s prego, handicapped, elderly, frail, carrying a bunch of stuff, then yeah.. only exception. Maybe if the woman was high on something too.. because the bus runs over a huge rock on the road & *thUmPp* starts laughing hysterically when it’s not even funny and possibly falling on me with her stinky self.
No, you have to be humble. I would give my seat off of politeness without you asking, however if you have to ask me it seems arrogant. If she is pregnant I would definitely give if she asked or not. But I feel it’s arrogance if you just try to take my seat for no reason other than your a woman.
Depends. Though I rarely need to take the train or bus, as I have cars.
But in my school days I used to, and would usually give up the seat for women, injured or elderly. Mainly as it's a decent thing to do and it puts them in a bit of a better spirit.
Plus I would usually stand and talk to them if they looked interesting enough. These days every other geezer is an introvert, or claims to have PTSD.
People won't give their seat to handicapped or barely able-bodied men, why should sex matter at all? Keep the seat and do what everyone else does. Or... skip the sexist sentimentality and actually care about people who have disabilities as a whole.
Priority seating is given for individuals who are disabled or have seniority. That’s the standard regulation for people who ride the bus here. This is not Rosa Parks, we’ve already accomplished that achievement.
Saying your a woman will not make me leave my seat on the bus.
In that specific situation I would look around the bus, see a million other seats, and just move to another one...
In real life, I would never ask "what is your disability?"
Most likely I'd have given up my seat before she even asked me to. Just the type of guy I am.
I’d expect him to laugh cause i sure as heck would. I dont even give a seat to a disabled person unless they ask 🤷♀️
Assuming she's neither hurt, handicapped or pregnant it will be probably something in the lines of "F*ck off".
If she appears to be a lady ie wearing a dress and is very polite and didn't ask me because she knows she doesn't deserve it id gladly give it to her. But if she's some modern feminist woman she can go fuck herself.
Unless she looks extra tired or exhausted or something, I'd probably just politely tell her I was here first.
I'm pushing 70. If she's visibly disabled physically or pregnant, I will give her my seat. If not, I'm staying in it - I've earned it after 70 years!
I would tell her to sit somewhere else.
I only give up my seat for elderly, disabled and pregnant women.
push her back and tell her to f off and that femenism will never take this man down.
I'd give up my seat to the Woman, just the way I was raised
If she is in high heels or carrying something sure.
I would offer before being asked. Because I am a gentleman.
She ain't special 🤣 we all want a seat hunny
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