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That is great that you know this about yourself. Not everyone wants to raise kids and I respect you for sticking with your decision.
I have no fucking clue but I am in the same boat. Like people just fucking tell me that I am either a fucking bad person or I am nothing but but a selfish being. Like it's supposed to be my decision, not theirs so excuse me for being “selfish” if it's my life and supposed to be my decision of what I want to do with my life. Like what the fuck?
All in all I can only say is you be you and have as big a family as you want. If you do not want childern you be you no other persons opinion should not matter. Childern no children is apersonal choice and no one should stick their two cents in as to what you want.
Uh, because they're not going to have anyone to care for them when they get old. And that means they're going to get stuck in some horrible residential care facility, receive substandard medical care, treated badly/abused, suffer, and die alone.
Because it’s not sustainable, because it’s dumb and not thinking about the future. It’s immature. It’s for losers who believe that thinking that they are “complete” matters at all to anyone or the universe or even that it will last. There a metric for quality human that exists outside the person and easing kid sis the greatest thing most people will amount to. And after all that, funnily enough, “completeness” comes from having kids anyway. So again, when someone says they have no interest it just seems like they’re being dumb.
It's not dumb, we live in a society where we are free to do what we like, so if I do not want to have children I won't have them.
I'm also free to drink myself to death, or be grossly fat. Being free to do something doesn't make that thing valuable or even non-destructive. The freer a society is the more it relies on cultural measures to function. The more free we are to do things, the greater need there is for shame and cultural norms.
If there was a law against what you're doing then there wouldn't be a need for shaming, but if it's legal and anyone can do it then shaming keeps the majority from doing something that would be unsustainable if everyone did it. So if you're the minority who truly feel they need to act in that undesirable way then you will do so in spite of criticism -- so get over it -- or if you at any point change your mind and don't want to go through with that anymore then you were never meant to be acting that way and the criticism is deserved -- so get over it. Either way, there's no valid complaint from you here. Either you can be normal, or you can suck it up and be weird.
So not wanting children is not normal?
We live in an overpopulated wolrd so I don't think that If I won't have children the things will drastically change
So let’s say 20% of your generation chooses not to have kids. When your old and the government is paying for your care do you think it won’t affect you? Because you don’t like working would you not work? Children are for leaving something being off ourselves but their also an insurance policy. We raise them so when we’re old hopefully we raise them right so we aren’t left in the streets to die alone. Everyone has responsibilities and anyone that shirks responsibility will pay the price. You will eventually be 60, tired, forced to work to pay for your meds with nobody that cares about you forced feeding them to you when your stuck in your dementia.
Most women that have ever existed have had children. So no, not wanting children is obviously not normal.
Even if overpopulation was true, that doesn’t mean that not having kids is healthy. Besides, you’ve already made it apparent that it’s not a reason informing your decision, so let’s not make excuses mkay? If you’re actually dedicated to this path, then accept the criticism and proceed anyway. Just don’t try to pretend that you’re the norm or try to convince others.
its your choice, Who cares what everyone else thinks.
Hey it your choice to weather be alone or with someone and start a family forget what society things ur not obligated to do what other people think
With the freedom of choice, comes the burden of others complaining about any choice you make!
I dont want children of my own or people degrading me for my choice not to become a father. World is already over populated.
I think it's more that people are concerned about them wanting that (concerned for their well-being) rather than being critical.
Because they're going against patriarchal social pressures.
Generation gap and having a family is considered to be healthier than living alone and stuff which to some extent is indeed true.
it’s just the same bs rhetoric about love and family uve been lied to about since u were a kid 🙄😂 you do what makes you happy, forget what “society” thinks.
Well it's their personal perspective and choice, one can't judge anyone for choosing to not have a family.
However the journey of life is always better with a partner.
People who are followers believe everyone needs to follow under social norms
You are going to want to find a man and have kids later in life but then you will be old and washed up.
I support MGTOW more and more everyday. Maybe you need to adopt their principles and put your self first
People can't see their happines. They want thus person to suffer the way they have suffered 🙂
This person*
Friends may fade away, but family is forever... u risk getting old and lonely
The female on the right is a dried up cat rancher who keeps repeating "where have all the good men gone".
A female who doesn't want a family is not really a woman, just like a male who won't stand up for his family is not really a man. Sorry, not sorry.
So I am not a real womam, ok lol
@claryy. Pretty much.
Hahaha right, now I will go. To cry bc you said I am non a real woman 😭😭😂😂 lol
@claryy. You asked, I answered. You do you.
Not everyone should be a parent.